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Caught husband watching babe station...

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colourPink · 06/04/2024 00:57

Just that really. I'm upstairs asleep (we have a 6mo DS who does NOT sleep so I go to bed a little earlier to try and get some sleep in). I wake to him crying at 12:45am and DH is not in bed nor did he respond to DS. I know this means he's asleep on the sofa (usually is).

Anyway, I can hear the baby monitor beeping to say the battery is low so I go downstairs and he's fallen asleep and babe station is on our flat screen tv bold as anything. (I suppose he couldn't have been that interested if he was asleep?😂).

I was a bit shocked he was so bold to put it on the lounge tv. And of course, I did the very British thing of grabbing the baby monitor (which was RIGHT next to him) and tiptoeing upstairs. For some reason I felt embarrassed especially if he woke up!

Am I bothered? Unsure. Not really - I know he watched porn etc but it bothers me that he was so open with it. Having it on our family tv is a little much?Not very discreet. We'd also had sex earlier in the evening so it makes me feel as if he obviously wasn't satisfied to go downstairs and pop that on.

Question is - do I continue to pretend nothing happened or do I say something to him? It's literally still on downstairs 🤦🏼‍♀️

OP posts:
MasterBeth · 06/10/2024 11:25

MalcolmsMiddle · 06/04/2024 17:14

It's not porn. As per a pp you'd see as much flesh on Love Island.

Of course it's porn.

It's regulated soft core porn, in order to be able to be shown on broadcast TV. It's less explicit than anything you could very easily find online.

It's still pornography:

"printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate sexual excitement."

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