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Want to have words with dirty inconsiderate selfish neighbour

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Whatayear2023 · 05/04/2024 21:33

I'm end terrace.. all housing association... everyone respectful no issues until skanky moved in next door almost a year ago. My issues are in no particular order....
Weed smoking...it reeks and the bloke or man child stands right by my door smoking it so if windows open it smells entire house. It's not just one or two a day think dot cotton on weed instead of the fags it's constant.
At night they sit out there with other teens on their phone playing music smoking it and seen lines of coke before too.
You put up with noise for a few months when someone moves in get that but a year later can still hear slamming doors shouting till late at night can't count amount of times its woken my kids thinking there are ghosts in walls or someone is breaking in
She doesn't clean up rubbish just leaves bin overflowing .. I've put her rubbish in my bin picked up open poo nappies put in my bin put her rubbish out and even knocked and said bins are x day and offered her my bin if she runs out of space. Yet again today more dirty poo nappies not even in a nappy sack blown over mine and the street... had daughters friend come over who ran excitingly towards my front door stepping in it.
I saw her come in with her kid and boyfriend and she could see the nappies and 2 hours later still there so went and knocked she said she will sort it when she can be arsed.

I've really really had enough... no one seems to care that druggies are driving a car with a tiny child nor does housing do anything...

I really really want to say or do something.

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Crazyclover · 05/04/2024 21:53

You need to report them to the housing association and if you have seen them use drugs and then drive ring the police and hopefully they will get stopped and drug tested, if you suspect the child is being neglected then a report to social services so they can do a check up visit would be the way to go

Whatayear2023 · 05/04/2024 21:58

Yes all of that has been done numerous times yet still having a spliff in one hand getting child strapped in with other!
I know other people have made reports as elderly disabled couple few doors down had their door banged and banged gone midnight as money was owed...
I just can't work out what else I can do.

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ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 05/04/2024 23:05

There's no point talking to them directly. They clearly don't give a shit and they could decide to cause trouble for you. Keep on reporting them to all the relevant authorities and encourage your neighbours to do the same. I'm sorry you've having to live with this, some people really are just incapable of even basic common decency.

Ladyluckinred · 05/04/2024 23:19

Have you reported to SS? They have weed in their house with a child, that’s my first concern. It’s such a shame, it sounds like you’ve been more than accommodating and tried to build a friendly neighbourly rapport. Do you have video evidence? Voice record conversations? You need to keep gathering concrete evidence against them. Re the nappies, can you put them in their front garden instead of your bin? I get you’re worried about starting conflict, but they already are. I’m not sure I could bite my tongue especially as it’s affecting your children’s sleep.

HauntedBungalow · 05/04/2024 23:22

Just keep reporting them. It takes time but they'll get moved on eventually. I feel for you.

Misthios · 05/04/2024 23:25

Crazyclover · 05/04/2024 21:53

You need to report them to the housing association and if you have seen them use drugs and then drive ring the police and hopefully they will get stopped and drug tested, if you suspect the child is being neglected then a report to social services so they can do a check up visit would be the way to go

Yeah good luck with that one. In the last place we lived it was a mix of privately owned, privately rented, and housing association, all mixed up together. Came home one lunchtime to find the police forcing entry into the property across the road - with the big red battering ram thing and sniffer dogs. Drugs raid, the local press reported that a quantity of class A had been seized. We all knew they were dealing, there were people in and out the street all time of day and night. But she blamed him, he blamed her, police dropped the case because of lack of evidence and housing association would do nothing because there was no criminal case even though the fact there was a quantity of heroin in the property was not in dispute.

We moved.

Whatayear2023 · 06/04/2024 00:01

Its just disgusting.. I looked out window as I'm awake can't sleep with the banging and there's even more nappies all over the road. Just heard their ring doorbell going for the 10th time tonight.
Police said they had a word with them but they just don't give a shit and carry on.
I'm getting so angry and the cheeky bugger was knocking my door 10pm for a lighter or if I had a gas cooker he could spark up on.
They are what I would call stereotype scum designer clothes brand new BMW and audi no job though and barely legal.
The poor kid getting literally thrown around and no one cares.
They seem really really rough and dodgy and yes I've tried being friendly even taking parcels in to try build a rapport etc but it's got me no where as the attitude stinks... they don't even acknowledge if I'm there I was cleaning windows today and had a can of booze chucked on floor when they got out if car straight in their house

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ButterCrackers · 06/04/2024 00:05

Report them to the police and social services. What disgusting people.

Ladyluckinred · 06/04/2024 00:27

Police said they had a word with them but they just don't give a shit and carry on.

No, sadly they really don’t. Have you heard of this organisation https://asbhelp.co.uk/. Worth a try to see if they can support your complaints. I’m so sorry this is happening, I appreciate how consuming it is. I lived in an area with loads of drug problems and constant night time drama right outside my window. Police could never identify where these individuals lived and like the PP, I moved house too.

Concannon88 · 06/04/2024 00:36

@Whatayear2023 its all anti social behaviour. Report to housing

Lizzy53 · 05/07/2024 16:23

Crazyclover · 05/04/2024 21:53

You need to report them to the housing association and if you have seen them use drugs and then drive ring the police and hopefully they will get stopped and drug tested, if you suspect the child is being neglected then a report to social services so they can do a check up visit would be the way to go

REPORT.REPORT REPORT. they may get moved as its ANTI SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR

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