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Parent and child spaces should be for those with children 5 and under

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seize · 03/04/2024 16:41

Parent-child parking spaces at supermarkets should be reserved primarily for those with children aged 5 and under, aside from older children with special needs (although a blue badge might be more appropriate where they meet the criteria, in these cases).

I was alone with my 4 month old today, the trolleys with the baby seats are kept next to these spaces. The spaces which have the easiest access to the trolleys had all been taken with the last taken by someone just before me, I reversed into a space around the corner and the driver was shaking their head at me, presumedly because their space only had extra room on one side and my space came up to them (see picture). I was surprised to then see them get out with a child of about 13. I saw multiple other people using these spaces with children looking like teenagers. I was able to get a space which still had fairly easy access to the trolleys, albeit by needing to walk on the road and inbetween the other cars, multiple people had parked in the spaces with the easiest access with much older children. I was lucky to get a space at all, had I not I would have had to walk across the busy carpark holding my baby.

YANBU- Just because someone has a child under 16 doesn’t mean they should take up these spaces, they should save them for people who need them the most.

YABU- first come first served, who cares if someone with a baby is having to traipse across a busy car park holding a baby to get to the baby trolleys.

Parent and child spaces should be for those with children 5 and under
OP posts:
neverendingcold · 15/04/2024 06:01

They aren't meant to be so you don't have to walk

cryinglaughing · 15/04/2024 06:06

I think they should just do away with the damn things.....bays that is, not children!

There is always drama around these bays, people with big kids, people with no children using them.
Do away with them to save arguments 😃

mamajong · 15/04/2024 06:30

Yabu in my opinion. Mine are older now but when they were little I had 5 under 10 and yes, parent and child spaces were easier but if we couldn't get one it was inconvenient at worst and we just parked elsewhere and dealt with it. When you compare what women in developing countries manage to achieve with children its astounding that so many people make such a big deal over this issue. Definitely a first world problem. If you can't cope with walking across a carpark then get your shopping delivered

JudgeJ · 15/04/2024 06:37

cryinglaughing · 15/04/2024 06:06

I think they should just do away with the damn things.....bays that is, not children!

There is always drama around these bays, people with big kids, people with no children using them.
Do away with them to save arguments 😃

You beat me to it! It's a never ending problem, 'My entitlement trumps yours'.

Iwasafool · 16/04/2024 08:12

Mummyoflittledragon · 10/04/2024 05:22

Sainsbury’s has the policy that BB holders can park in P&C. I imagine others do also. https://www.saga.co.uk/magazine/motoring/cars/using/can-a-blue-badge-holder-park-in-a-parent-and-child-space

He won't though. I've told him he can and he is adamant he won't take a space that isn't meant for him.

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