I f35 leave with DH (m36) and have a very nearly 3yo son. DH is the main contributor to the house. I work job share but on a shift pattern so I work a full week 6am-2pm (before this I walk our dog as DH can’t do that while getting Ds ready for nursery. Ds goes to nursery 3 days a week 8-3) then I either work a Monday/tues night (9pm-7am) or a Wed Thursday night depending on the shift rotation and then I get a week off. I try to use my holidays on a Monday as that’s when it’s Ds swimming lessons that my husband refuses to do with him as he doesn’t want to. I cook every evening meal,make the pack ups and even if it’s my early shift when I wake up for work at half four if he needs something in the night (maybe once a week) I go to my son. My DH has now started pointing out stuff I could do on the days I’m off work and our son is at nursery, I honestly normally use these days to ether wash bedding or get some rest.
AIBU to say I know you work full time but in some ways I do too??