Out for dinner last night at 'D'H's friends and their wives. Lovely evening.
Get home and continue to have a few drinks and a dance together as it's a rare child free night. When we sit down and start to chat...
I mention that I may take our DC out with one of the other wives and their DC in a couple of weeks following a conversation at dinner.. DH then (out of nowhere) says "oh I see, get close to the enemy". Confused, I asked what he was talking about and apparently he thinks there is a "connection" between me and one of his friends (this wife's husband).
There is no connection - I've certainly never felt one anyway. I have however always felt awkward around this particular friend as DH has always said I fancy him and he fancies me (totally unfounded and not true). In the past If ever I have spoke to this friend at functions DH will always interprupt and in some form or another make me leave the conversation- all extremely awkward and uncomfortable especially as I talk to all his friends!
Anyway, at dinner I intentionally only said hi and bye to this friend and avoided any conversation and didn't even look at him but yet DH still makes the comment re. friends wife.
I question him further and he starts saying he feels a connection there and perhaps he is "ahead" of me and his friend and we will likely feel it in the future if we don't now and it ended with him telling me to fuck off - which I did - to bed. He slept downstairs.
Is DH being unreasonable to continue to stop me having conversations with this friend and therefore making things feel awkward every time we go out with his mates?!! ... This friend must think I'm so rude as I'm super chatty with every but won't even look at him - it's so awkward and ridiculous.