How do you prove abuse?

[Someonehelpmeagain]

I believe I'm in an abusive relationship. How.do.i prove it?. I'm not even sure if it's me anymore. An example is he works shifts and won't tell me his rota as he says I'm controlling in asking . We have a child together and I don't work if that makes any difference. Tonight he's shouted at our child and really frightened me he then started having a go at me about our child in front of then. He claims I gaslight him and I'm honestly unsure if it's me

Just an update for anyone interested, I reported the abuse to the police tonight. They are going to arrange to take a statement

Well done, stay strong 💐

Been to the police this morning, although it's financial abuse and coercive control as he hasn't damaged anything in my house and or hit me its non arrest able. I have been given details of DV charities and have to evict him privately and get an non molestation order. I wish I was making it up.

Hi,

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way—it sounds like an incredibly difficult situation. You’re not alone in this, and there is help available.
If you’re looking for guidance on how to prove abuse or understand your situation better, I work with a legal advisor who has experience in these cases. They can help you understand your rights and what steps you can take. If you’d like, I can put you in touch with them for a confidential chat.
Please know that questioning yourself is very common in these situations, but you deserve to feel safe and supported. Let me know if I can help in any way.

Take care.