I'm probably just not looking hard enough.
I work in an office where there are a lot of men, there are two who I think are cute but neither are single. The last one who was single and who I was interested in claimed he 'doesn't date in the office ' (yeah whatever) another guy I seem to have a spark with but he's far too young sadly.
People suggest Parkrun, I go there and I never seem to see men on their own there, or if they are they don't exactly seem approachable.
I'm 32. I don't drink and sadly don't really have a big group I can go out with. I do have friends but it's more individuals as such. Also without sounding rude, I don't want to go to an event where there are a ton of thirsty men there who are just desperate.
Feel a bit down, I just find it so hard to meet anyone who's attractive to me, available and kind.
I've never had much luck with online apps for some reason, and I know people will say keep trying, I am done with sifting through thousands of grim, sleazy men to potentially find one decent one.
I just worry it's too late now. It would've probably been easier when I was at uni, though statistically most people are unlikely to stay with the people they meet in their early 20s.