So, we have family that live in Scotland and we tend to visit them a few times a year and they would come to us maybe once a year. My sister in law told me the other day they are coming to visit in a few weeks fri-mon. Now I used to live in a much larger property but had to downsize. In my old property I had a really large kitchen/dining room and all the rooms were well spaced apart whereas my new property is so small, my kitchen is less than a quarter of the size of my old one, no space for dining table. Not even in the living room, we have to eat on trays on the sofa, bedrooms are small. There's me, my partner and 3 children.
There are 2 adults and 4 kids but them visiting wasn't much of an issue in the old house as there was lots of space but I still found it really overwhelming and couldn't wait for them to leave. The thought of them coming here to my tiny house and having 11 people here for 3 days is causing me so much stress. The kids are all loud and wild too.
I am autistic too and my home is my safe space and I like my routine and the thought of having all the chaos around me is making me really upset.
Am I being unreasonable to tell them not to come as we don't have space?
I feel like it's going to cause a load of drama.
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StrangerThings1992 · 28/03/2024 11:34
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