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To think maternity pay should be better funded?

87 replies

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:02

I saw this post earlier this week.

We are expecting our first baby. As it stands we won’t be able to comfortably afford a second: finances of maternity leave, childcare, mortgages rates, everything.

Surely people will start to choose to have no kids or just have one, because of the financial barriers. If everyone does this there are going to be huge consequences population wise down the line. If people are employed I am not sure why they are not entitled to better pay while they are on leave.

You could go on long term sick and get full pay for 6 months and half pay for 6 months, why should that be any better than maternity pay? I just don’t understand.

To think maternity pay should be better funded?
OP posts:
missmollygreen · 23/03/2024 12:58

TempestTost · 23/03/2024 12:41

If this is true, people who don't have children should not get any of the benefits those children will eventually contribute to society.

After all, the parents paid for it all out of their pockets, why should they not reap all the benefits?

Society needs children, it's not just a private decision.

So people who dont have children should not get a pension or healthcare? Even though they have paid into the system for their working lives (payed more in fact, as they will have taken no maternity/paternity leave)

MotherOfRatios · 23/03/2024 13:04

I'm mid 20s with wage stagnation high childcare costs and a lack of affordable housing kids aren't on my radar.

These issues are impacting fertility rates

BoohooWoohoo · 23/03/2024 13:16

Didn’t you notice that the new childcare subsidies for nursery is for kids 9 months to 2 years old? There is clearly demand for places and a shift to some mums taking 9 months maternity rather than 12 months for financial reasons.

Politicians think as far as the next election so I suspect that importing tax payers from abroad will end up being the solution.

Sniksnaksnoram · 23/03/2024 13:17

Dacadactyl · 23/03/2024 11:19

Must be the people we know and the sectors they work in. I honestly don't know anyone who DOESNT get enhanced mat pay.

Don’t you? Your circle must be quite small. Companies don’t have to offer an enhanced package.

i imagine there’s great many professions that don’t. Or it they do it’s like 8 weeks. I worked in a large IT company (5000 -10k employees in the uK and Europe) they offered the bare minimum everything. Whilst I understand it for local business, I don’t think large companies should be able to offer so little by way of any benefits

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 13:24

BoohooWoohoo · 23/03/2024 13:16

Didn’t you notice that the new childcare subsidies for nursery is for kids 9 months to 2 years old? There is clearly demand for places and a shift to some mums taking 9 months maternity rather than 12 months for financial reasons.

Politicians think as far as the next election so I suspect that importing tax payers from abroad will end up being the solution.

It’s not going to happen, they can’t afford it

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Sniksnaksnoram · 23/03/2024 13:49

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 13:24

It’s not going to happen, they can’t afford it

I think it’s more than likely it will happen or something will happen childcare wise, there is a need for more people in work at the end of the day to support the aging population

Sapphire387 · 23/03/2024 13:52

Yes, I agree with you, SMP is shocking.

SSP is also shocking. 6 months full, 6 months half tends to be a civil service sick pay or similar. Many people get hardly any sick pay.

Both need sorting.

DinnaeFashYersel · 23/03/2024 13:58

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:02

I saw this post earlier this week.

We are expecting our first baby. As it stands we won’t be able to comfortably afford a second: finances of maternity leave, childcare, mortgages rates, everything.

Surely people will start to choose to have no kids or just have one, because of the financial barriers. If everyone does this there are going to be huge consequences population wise down the line. If people are employed I am not sure why they are not entitled to better pay while they are on leave.

You could go on long term sick and get full pay for 6 months and half pay for 6 months, why should that be any better than maternity pay? I just don’t understand.

6 months full pay is a benefit from your employer. Many people only get SSP.

Statutory Maternity Pay, Sick Pay, Maternity Allowance are essentially government benefits to supply a safety net for those whose employers do pay enhanced maternity or sick pay.

It's your employer who you should be lobbying for better benefits or switch to a job where the benefits are better. Public sector generally is pretty generous on this.

DinnaeFashYersel · 23/03/2024 14:00

@iguano88

They do, works out I’ll get about 75% of my wage for 6ish months and then SMP for another 9 weeks then nothing

That's not bad actually. Lots of women only get statutory.

Itsthemostwonderfultimeoftheyear · 23/03/2024 14:04

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 13:24

It’s not going to happen, they can’t afford it

I very much doubt it won’t go ahead - the 2 year old funding is now in place without much issue in our area.

ConsuelaHammock · 23/03/2024 14:25

No. Yours sounds generous! How long have you and and your husband been working? I’m sure you can use some of the money you’ve saved for your maternity leave.

rwalker · 23/03/2024 14:26

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:02

I saw this post earlier this week.

We are expecting our first baby. As it stands we won’t be able to comfortably afford a second: finances of maternity leave, childcare, mortgages rates, everything.

Surely people will start to choose to have no kids or just have one, because of the financial barriers. If everyone does this there are going to be huge consequences population wise down the line. If people are employed I am not sure why they are not entitled to better pay while they are on leave.

You could go on long term sick and get full pay for 6 months and half pay for 6 months, why should that be any better than maternity pay? I just don’t understand.

MPs wage compares with any senior manager

TempestTost · 23/03/2024 17:18

fitzwilliamdarcy · 23/03/2024 12:57

Parents don’t pay for it all out of their own pockets - the birth, healthcare and education are funded by the general public.

I would absolutely leave a country which decided that state services would only be provided to parents and not us unworthy barrens.

This is the fourth time I’ve seen this suggestion on MN this week and it’s vile, frankly.

No one is suggesting that seriously, they are saying it's the logical outcome of the idea that children are a lifestyle decision for parents, and a luxury, not a very necessary part of a functioning society.

TempestTost · 23/03/2024 17:22

missmollygreen · 23/03/2024 12:58

So people who dont have children should not get a pension or healthcare? Even though they have paid into the system for their working lives (payed more in fact, as they will have taken no maternity/paternity leave)

If people cannot afford to have kids, they won't get any of those things, because there will be no one to pay for them. And also, no one to actually do the physical work of maintaining social infrastructure or anything else.

The reason people in societies like ours can without too much worry take the risk of NOT having children is because we have created a complex system where they can rely on their care and social funding from the state. In other places where that doesn't exist, everyone has to rely on their own children and family.

But you can't expect families to pay all the costs as if it's a wholly private thing, and then demand the benefits those children create as adults be distributed to all.

User2460177 · 20/04/2024 17:07

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:02

I saw this post earlier this week.

We are expecting our first baby. As it stands we won’t be able to comfortably afford a second: finances of maternity leave, childcare, mortgages rates, everything.

Surely people will start to choose to have no kids or just have one, because of the financial barriers. If everyone does this there are going to be huge consequences population wise down the line. If people are employed I am not sure why they are not entitled to better pay while they are on leave.

You could go on long term sick and get full pay for 6 months and half pay for 6 months, why should that be any better than maternity pay? I just don’t understand.

Lots of employers only give statutory sick pay and anything more is discretionary.

in respect of maternity pay, again it varies from employer to employer. The basic government subsidized maternity pay is small but many employers pay enhanced maternity pay. My previous employer paid six months full pay (and our sick policy was only 20 days a year full pay although I think they did pay longer on a discretionary basis).

WeekendFreedom · 20/04/2024 17:19

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:07

True. Begs the question; should only the people who can afford to save for a whole maternity leave be able to have kids? What about one or low income households, or those who want more than one child but are already paying extortionate childcare fees?

People should live within their means and if they can’t afford something then the obvious solution is not to have it. Some people go back after 6 months to help with the financial side of it some even earlier so if someone can’t afford a whole maternity leave of 12 months or 9 months they then have to make the decision to go back early.

BeLemonQuoter · 22/06/2024 10:06

WeekendFreedom · 20/04/2024 17:19

People should live within their means and if they can’t afford something then the obvious solution is not to have it. Some people go back after 6 months to help with the financial side of it some even earlier so if someone can’t afford a whole maternity leave of 12 months or 9 months they then have to make the decision to go back early.

I am sorry but you completely internalised and rationalised the complete distegard of mum's and baby's wellbeing in favour of exploiting young families. I think early childcare, smp's and nursery's are outrageous in this country and I really don't understand how women don't go on the street and revolt asking for more smp and affordable or free state run childcare

Nanny0gg · 22/06/2024 10:11

iguano88 · 23/03/2024 11:11

They do, works out I’ll get about 75% of my wage for 6ish months and then SMP for another 9 weeks then nothing.

Where do you think the money is going to come from?

I do think that people need to make 'some' provision for themselves.

I wish Mat pay had been around when I had my children but as it wasn't we had to manage. And my pregnancy was a bit of a surprise!

TorturedPoetsDepartmentAnthology · 22/06/2024 10:14

You have the opportunity to save for maternity leave though. Many babies are unplanned but for those who are planned, it should not be a surprise.

I would rather see funding aimed at education, health, social care, libraries and community resources rather than paying for parents to extend their mat leave.

Nanny0gg · 22/06/2024 10:17

BeLemonQuoter · 22/06/2024 10:06

I am sorry but you completely internalised and rationalised the complete distegard of mum's and baby's wellbeing in favour of exploiting young families. I think early childcare, smp's and nursery's are outrageous in this country and I really don't understand how women don't go on the street and revolt asking for more smp and affordable or free state run childcare

Because - where is the money going to come from?

What will you cut to fund this?

BeLemonQuoter · 22/06/2024 10:25

I am sure that it is possible to figure something out as other countries in Europe somehow could finance it and they don't seem to be bankrupt.

Also, I don't think that other social services are well funded either.

On the note of saving up money. I don't know in what world you are living in, but saving up the amount of money you need to get through maternity is not realistic for most families.

Jk987 · 22/06/2024 21:40

Comparing weekly, statutory pay for those on maternity leave with annual salary for an MP is nuts. We're supposed to go away and calculate the weekly pay for a £91k salary!

Most people get additional pay from their employer anyway. You'd manage if you realised you were having twins...

FuzzyStripes · 22/06/2024 21:53

Many people get enhanced maternity pay and some will choose their employment accordingly if they financially plan for the long term. However, reduced disposable income during maternity leave is one of the cheaper parts of being a child. Nurseries at £100+ per day or reducing hours to become part time usually has a bigger impact. Nobody has to take a year off and in many countries, it’s not even an option.

Boymum2104 · 22/06/2024 22:12

I've just finished 14 months maternity, 9 months SMP & 5 months unpaid. I saved £6000 beforehand to give myself an extra £500pm (for 12 months) & DH took care of all bills, mortgage etc whilst I was not earning.

Teacherprebaby · 22/06/2024 22:21

I get 6 weeks at 90% and the rest at £184 a week! I've been teaching for over 10 years. WTAF.