To ask for support here?

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Sorry I don't really know where to put this but my partner of 3.5y broke up with me this week. It wasn't because we don't work or we've fallen out of love but because of the toxic effect his ex has had on him.

For me this relationship followed a tough divorce so feels extra painful. I'm literally heartbroken. Who can give me some advice/strength?

What does his ex have to do with anything after 3.5 years? It sounds like an excuse he just pulled out of his hat.

She has caused endless issues. Told his daughter lots of lies, stop her seeing him and his family who live local, now defaulting on mortgage, not engaging with divorce etc. it's been drama after drama.

Did your ex have a court order with his ex over their daughter?

Unfortunately the old truism that ‘time heals all wounds’ applies. I’ve had breakups that I’ve taken a long time to get over, I found nothing really worked except the passage of time. Other people seek refuge in work, exercise etc. everyone is different.