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[lallaland123]

My ex from 4 years ago texted me he wants me back
Said he wasn't able to find any meaningful relationships after we broke up i asked about those relationships and he sent me photos of a woman in lingerie and told me that was who he dated .

It gave me ick , and i was keen on meeting up before he sent those pics .
Don't know what to say now as he expects to meet up and i agreed .. what would you say/do ?

Is he sending my private photos to other women 😭 if i asked he obviously wouldn't admit

I would tell him to jog on..

Sounds like mind games.

Ah not found anyone, I'll have you back.

Usually if they want to show you who they dated (which is weird) it would be their SM profile pic..to send one in lingerie is him trying to manipulate your emotions, make you feel insecure.
Also to send someones personal photo without their consent to an ex partner to me is douche behaviour. I wouldn't give him any time or energy

i didn't even ask for photo i just asked how they met and what was the reason they broke up

next thing i see 3 pics of woman ( face included) in lingerie .. wow

So he's split with the latest woman and is looking for a posterity bonk.....

Just tell him you're busy washing your hair and then block him.

Why are you even considering him @lallaland123 when he is sending you pictures of other women to make you feel insecure?

He must already know your level of self-esteem.

P.S is this the Relationships board, or did I get lost?

sorry i posted in wrong section .

I agreed to meet before he sent those now i don't know what to say to him

i got major ick and am worried he sends my private photos to other people now

that's brilliant thank you 😂

Tell him you have made a decision not to recycle for the benefit of the rest of the women of the world.

Tell him that there is no way any decent woman would date a man who sends her pics of another woman, presumably without that woman’s consent.

He's trying to neg you and make you feel insecure in comparison to the sexy ladies he's sent you so that you want to win him back, he probably read that as a tip from an Andrew Tate style website!

He sounds immature, disrespectful to women and absolutely rude to you that he expects you to be waiting around for him because he didn't find anyone better (or anyone he liked who liked him back!)

He has nothing to offer you except maybe a bit of physical aftection but that is extremely easy to find elsewhere'

I would block him

You block the idiot. Obviously.

Personally I would go back and say that sending those particular photos to anyone is pretty gross behaviour that just makes him look like a bit of a dick so no, you don't want to meet up now. Then block

So he’s split from an other woman and is feeling sorry for himself so decides to message someone who he thinks will be an easy option. Don’t do it. He’s an ex for a reason.

edited to add: I don’t meant easy in that way I mean easy as in he already knows you and it’s a quick ego boost for him etc without having to do the hard work of meeting someone new.

he was begging me for past 2 years to get back together, when i block him he sends emails

So he suggested at least to meet for coffee as friends first and see if there is any connection there , I wish i didn't say say but he was so persuasive

it awkward now . Oh well never mind . I can just ignore his emails after i block him once again .