Basically I gave birth three weeks ago, typical newborn stage at the moment with baby feeding every 2-3 hours (or 30 mins lol). MIL said I'm sleeping too much! I'm sometimes only getting 2-3 hours a night with waking and a nap in the evening when DP comes home from work.
At the moment I want to try and establish his feeding and rest a bit myself as having little sleep makes me feel unbalanced so I'm prioritising him and sleep for myself. A couple of times I've been so exhausted I've fallen asleep feeding him which is super dangerous. I didn't get anytime to rest for the first 2 weeks we visitors kept coming around.
She also asked whether I had gone out with him today and that I should get out daily. I have been getting out, but not every day.
Basically I'm annoyed because she doesn't seem to get that I can't do everything I'm trying to prioritise baby, myself and DP and take care of my basic needs too. AIBU for feeling annoyed ?