Started dating a guy around 4 weeks ago. We slept together before dating as we were drinking with mutual friends! He told me the day after that he'd like us to date because he's not looking for a one night stand. So we started meeting once a week and talking via text each day.
Shortly after we started dating, a mutual friend warned me about him. Apparently, he's always dating someone new and sleeps about a bit.
He denied sleeping around, but did say he dates a bit as he is looking for someone to settle down with.
I told him at the weekend that I was feeling strange about things and something felt off. He would read my messages and wait 6+ hours to respond, even after explaining he hadn't done anything all day. I felt like he was playing games.
We met yesterday to talk, but he just spoke about his childcare arrangements and was texting his child's Mum. We barely spoke about the issue at hand, but he told me I had raised his defences after my doubts and that he needed to sleep on how we should move forward. We then said goodbye, gave each other a hug and went home. We continued to text a bit afterwards.
I saw him tonight on the way home from work. We walk past each other occasionally. He told me about his day and said he just felt off about things with us and that we should meet up for food and to chat. He said tomorrow might be good but he plans to meet another female friend so he'd let me know. He also told me he spoke to the lass he was dating before me yesterday. She saw us kissing whilst we were all out last week and then contacted him. The whole thing made me feel strange.
Then he told me he was meeting a female friend. As she approached, he stepped back and we said goodbye. He never hugged me or introduced me to his friend. I just left feeling confused by this sudden coldness.
Tonight, I decided to cut things off.
I am so new to dating after leaving my marriage a year ago so have no idea if I was being unreasonable or not. Let me have it... 