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Threatening emails to nurseries - keeping DC off

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onedaysoonish · 19/03/2024 16:32

Some nurseries in my area have received a threatening email saying someone is coming to "kill white children" in the nurseries and public parks and playgrounds. We have had a letter from the police and council. Apparently only three nurseries have received the email but I've also been told others have received it but police have told them not to inform parents. The police are treating the emails as a hoax because 1) the sender didn't name a time and place and 2) the content of the email apparently suggests the sender has poor mental health. I'm not sure how many terrorists provide police with an ETA beforehand and the fact that someone threatening to kill kids has poor mental health would worry me more rather than less.

Since I found out about the emails I've kept DC at home. Our nursery has a main gate where they buzz you in but there are flats in the building (nursery is on the ground floor) so it's not just parents getting buzzed in to the ground floor. The nursery then has another gate but it's often unlocked and just not secure. If the nursery was more secure I think I would feel differently. They have stopped all trips off the site.

I doubt the police will catch this person in the next few weeks and they don't seem to be taking it seriously. My DC is moving to a new school in September but now I'm literally thinking do I keep them off nursery for the next five months? Am I being a crazy person? I've just been so shocked by the email I feel a bit off balance and I'm not sure of my judgement. Maybe there's a middle ground I just can't see it. But AIBU to keep off nursery for the next 5 months?

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TigBitss · 19/03/2024 16:37

I wouldn't have my child in a nursery that didn't take safety measures anyway tbh.

Marblessolveeverything · 19/03/2024 16:38

If my nursery wasn't secure to keep my children from running off or randomers getting in - I wouldn't be using it.

I can't make out if this is the case? If it is secure then I would send them. But from your op I am reading it isn't? But that surely can't be the case?__

onedaysoonish · 19/03/2024 16:42

You are right if it's not secure DC shouldn't be there anyway. I've never thought it's not secure before - never crossed my mind until this email and now I'm second guessing everything. I don't think DC could get out or some random could get in accidentally - I guess I worry that someone who was trying to get in and thinks to turn up at drop off or pick up time could probably do so and this email has made me realise that there is someone out there who would try to get in.

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