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Allegations of sexual misconduct

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NonConsensualSchweppes · 19/03/2024 12:55

Just wondering about people's attitudes to this. If an allegation is made of rape or sexual assault (whether towards a celebrity or someone you see down the pub), do people generally think there must be something in it even if there's 'no further action' or do they maintain the notion of 'innocent until proven', with no social stigma?

'No further action' stays on file and can be reopened if fresh evidence arises - although obviously in many cases of sexual offence, there is no evidence beyond the witness statement.

Just wondering about people's actual gut reactions - not how the law stands. Thanks.

You are being unreasonable = absolutely innocent until proven guilty, no stigma
You are NOT being unreasonable = there's no smoke without fire

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bythebanksof · 24/03/2024 10:43

The comment from @ChildrenOfTheQuorn is interesting, and does not reflect my person experience, or any data analysis I've seen. I worked in LMP for a few years, before transitioning to legal profession.

For the cases I've been involved with the the overwhelming trend is that the accused has a series of accusations against them, often going back many years. In many cases the accused also had a number of non-sexual offenses, this could be common assault, driving, burglary, etc. Their peers knew of their "reputation".

Regardless of the legal situation, as with other aspects of life, people make and will continue to make assumptions (if we hear someone's speaking voice, then we typically infer a lot within minutes, often incorrectly, their gender, age, ethnicity, region of origin, education level, etc.)

Rape is hugely underreported.

Weiser, D.A. (2017). "Confronting Myths About Sexual Assault, Family Relations, 66, 46–60" is a paper based on data from England, Wales, and several other countries. The number of false reports is in the low single figures. Of course, this percentage is inflated since it only looks at the ratio in respect to reports (and most rape is not reported).

The data clearly shows you should believe the victim. There is a small chance you can be wrong. False accusations are a very very serious issue, and they will happen.

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