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To take an extra bag?

12 replies

TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 12:34

Just having a rant!

I went into Sephora yesterday to get some birthday presents for my DD and DN. Also wanted to get a couple of things for myself. I spent over £200. I was at the self checkout and I put the things for DN in one bag and the things for myself and DD in another. The reason being I wanted to give the gifts in a Sephora bag as DD and DN both find Sephora very exciting and would like the bag. As I went to leave the shop an assistant rudely told me I was only allowed one bag - I was taken aback in the moment and just walked out saying nothing.

AIBU in thinking when you've spent over £200 it's a bit mean to quibble over a paper bag?

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ComtesseDeSpair · 18/03/2024 12:39

People often use high end and designer shopping bags to package counterfeit goods to sell on, apparently. Ex-SIL worked for Pandora and it was common. It’ll be a head office directive - though yes, sales assistants ought to be apologetic or polite and explain why.

concernedchild · 18/03/2024 12:39

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/03/2024 12:39

People often use high end and designer shopping bags to package counterfeit goods to sell on, apparently. Ex-SIL worked for Pandora and it was common. It’ll be a head office directive - though yes, sales assistants ought to be apologetic or polite and explain why.

Edited

Sephora isn't really that high end though.

Mudflaps · 18/03/2024 12:41

concernedchild · 18/03/2024 12:39

Sephora isn't really that high end though.

And neither is Pandora.

ThePunchBowl · 18/03/2024 12:43

Are you supposed to pay for the bag?

If so and you didn’t then YABU. If not then YANBU.

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/03/2024 12:44

They’re brands with a following which, clearly, people like the trappings of - OP, after all, wanted the carrier bags because her DD and DN are excited about Sephora as a brand.

TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 12:48

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/03/2024 12:39

People often use high end and designer shopping bags to package counterfeit goods to sell on, apparently. Ex-SIL worked for Pandora and it was common. It’ll be a head office directive - though yes, sales assistants ought to be apologetic or polite and explain why.

Edited

Thanks for explaining that.

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TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 12:51

concernedchild · 18/03/2024 12:39

Sephora isn't really that high end though.

But plenty of the products on there are counterfeited. My DD showed me Sol de Janeiro on Ali Express the other day.

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TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 12:53

ThePunchBowl · 18/03/2024 12:43

Are you supposed to pay for the bag?

If so and you didn’t then YABU. If not then YANBU.

There was no indication that you had to pay for a bag but if you did I wouldn't have minded if the sales assistant just politely told me that.

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TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 12:54

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/03/2024 12:44

They’re brands with a following which, clearly, people like the trappings of - OP, after all, wanted the carrier bags because her DD and DN are excited about Sephora as a brand.

Yes, it is incredibly popular for their age group (young teens).

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TakeOnFlea · 18/03/2024 12:57

I'd have done 2 transactions. They've got a fucking nerve when you're spending that much money.

dcsp · 18/03/2024 13:55

I'd have pointed out (as per @TakeOnFlea's comment) that I would be able to put the items through in two transactions and then take 2 bags while complying with their 1 bag per transaction rule - then ask them if they would like to refund my existing (combined) transaction so I could do that, or if they'd prefer I just take a second bag without them having to do that.

And if they didn't see sense, I'd enable maximum bloody-minded mode, and do one transaction (and therefore one bag) for each item in my basket.

TotoroElla · 18/03/2024 14:39

dcsp · 18/03/2024 13:55

I'd have pointed out (as per @TakeOnFlea's comment) that I would be able to put the items through in two transactions and then take 2 bags while complying with their 1 bag per transaction rule - then ask them if they would like to refund my existing (combined) transaction so I could do that, or if they'd prefer I just take a second bag without them having to do that.

And if they didn't see sense, I'd enable maximum bloody-minded mode, and do one transaction (and therefore one bag) for each item in my basket.

Haha - I never think of these things on the spot! Thinking about it afterwards I would have just offered to pay for the extra bag while offering 50p or something! The rudeness unsettled me - everyone else in the shop had been very nice.

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