I have a six year old son and a two year old son, I am currently trying to balance starting back up my career and motherhood but I’m finding it so difficult. My two year old has never slept since he was born, he still wakes multiple times through out the night. Often he goes back to sleep but some nights he point blank refuses. On top of my kids I also have a puppy, I’m trying to house train the puppy but i seem to be failing miserably. Im having to constantly carpet clean my carpets due to accidents which has now blown up on me and I haven’t a penny to my name. Im becoming to become really frustrated, I do have a partner he works 5 days a week hours ranging from 10-5. When it comes to cleaning I ask for his help, he moans at me like he’s a teenager and when he does help me he’ll help with the bare minimum. I have mentioned this to him but he swears blind that he does help me and he is the only person who does. But when he does help me to clean he’ll do one thing like hoover the living room and then sit back down and watch his phone when theirs the whole house to still clean.
i will make sure the kitchen is cleaned every night before I go up to bed by the morning he will of made food for the both of us, but he never puts rubbish away that he has used he just leaves it on the floor or the side and spillages he doesn’t wipe up. I have been asking him multiple times to help with jobs around the house and he never does. I honestly feel like I am just talking to my self at this point and I am beyond stressed. Then by night time i am absoutley exhausted and my partner then expects me to have sex with him every single night if I don’t he’ll huff and he’ll puff he will turn away from me, he tells me how sick he is of me and how he’ll find someone who wants to touch him and have sex with him.
im trying my hardest but it feels like every time I try I fail. Any help or advice appreciated