Recently separated, going through a divorce from abusive ex husband. Was always very close to the WAGs of my ex’s best friends - they came to the hen do/ wedding, one of them still does my nails etc. Have been away with them since separation (where I did offer not to come as wondered if I was no longer welcome as divorcing) but we had a nice time and wasn’t awkward.
one of the girls is expecting her first baby and I’ve just found out one of the others has organised a baby shower and I’m not asked. No cross words with any of them. When I’ve spoken to them about the breakdown of the marriage separately most have commented they could see how controlling my ex was and that I was. obviously unhappy. AIBU to feel really hurt that no one has even mentioned it or explained why I’m not included? Feel like I’m being punished for divorcing.