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To think nursery shouldn’t be charging me for bank holidays?

146 replies

Givemegoldensun · 16/03/2024 14:53

Can I ask AIBU? Nursery costs just over £90 a day for an 8 month old, and they expect us to pay for bank holidays when they are not open. To me this seems unreasonable. We are talking about paying £185 for no service (Good Friday/Easter Monday). It this normal practice? I don’t want to be an asshole but we are financially stretched and I don’t think this is fair.

OP posts:
Cattenberg · 16/03/2024 17:38

Yes, it happens here and yes, when I went back part-time after maternity leave I chose not to work on Mondays.

husbandcallsmepickle · 16/03/2024 17:38

@Givemegoldensun did you sign a contract when you signed up to the nursery? It would have stated T&C about Bank Holiday payments.

Backintothewoods · 16/03/2024 17:40

I have to admit I find this frustrating. If you have a child who attends on a Monday and a Friday (as I do!) over Easter they can’t attend at all but still get charged for it.

Sunglow1921 · 16/03/2024 17:44

Reugny · 16/03/2024 17:38

The subsidiary is a joke.

Lot of parents childcare costs have gone up due to the subsidiary not covering very much.

I was lucky my nursery and childminder managed to keep their prices the same for years. Now they have risen.

This. Everyone moans about how lucky we are to get the free hours. Well our nursery put their rates up by just the right amount that the 15 hours from April mean we’ll end up paying the same as before 🙄

anniegun · 16/03/2024 17:44

Nurseries are private businesses. If you do not like their fee structures , use another one. Or just work out the total cost for actual days used and see if that is still within your budget

Mazuslongtoenail · 16/03/2024 17:46

There will be a ratio of 1:3 in your baby’s room. So 3x93.50 = 280.50 income per that staff member. 11 hours at minimum wage is 126. That leaves £50 per child to day for heating and lighting, rent, insurance, chef, maintenance, nursery manager, food, toys, accountant etc

They’re really not making huge profits as far as I can tell. Nursing homes however - the maths look quite different when you add up the fees and ratios.

dammit88 · 16/03/2024 17:47

I agree it's a rubbish system. It would be better to have a slightly higher rate overall so that the cost of the bank holidays is shared amongst all fee payers.

Mazuslongtoenail · 16/03/2024 17:50

Mazuslongtoenail · 16/03/2024 17:46

There will be a ratio of 1:3 in your baby’s room. So 3x93.50 = 280.50 income per that staff member. 11 hours at minimum wage is 126. That leaves £50 per child to day for heating and lighting, rent, insurance, chef, maintenance, nursery manager, food, toys, accountant etc

They’re really not making huge profits as far as I can tell. Nursing homes however - the maths look quite different when you add up the fees and ratios.

Oh that doesn’t even include trying to recoup the funding shortfall for the over 3s (and now 2s).

The whole system is broken.

RawBloomers · 16/03/2024 17:52

jannier · 16/03/2024 17:24

With a lot of their fees.....and soon to be even more in the local authorities and government control how do you expect them to cover their costs? It's not as simple as put your hourly fee up when most of their business won't even be at the current break even fee.

What bit of “work out their pricing for the days they provide service.” And “wrapping them up into their total costs and working out their price from that.” makes you think I don’t expect them to cover their costs?

Do you find maths and reading comprehension difficult?

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 16/03/2024 17:53

Mummame222 · 16/03/2024 15:28

Jesus. Who the hell is voting YBU? That’s outrageous. Of course you shouldn’t pay on the day they are closed! Do you pay for the coffee you don’t have when they are closed??

the nursery need to budget better putting up their price slightly so it averages that they can pay staff for bank hols when they are closed. This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard of.

Not the same at all.

I get BH off and get paid.
The Nursery staff need to be paid.
That's how it is.

People should read their contracts.

pocketaces · 16/03/2024 17:59

Just because it's in the contract and it's common doesn't make it right.

My kids nursery did this and I thought it was ridiculous. Their bank holiday costs should be averaged out over the whole year with a slightly higher rate. Its just so obvious I don't get why people think its OK to charge for a service you don't deliver.

If your kid is in full time it makes little difference but mine did Mon and Wed only and it wound me up no end.

NewName24 · 16/03/2024 18:03

CyberLilly · 16/03/2024 16:34

Unless you pay as you go and not a monthly.rate then you are being unreasonable

The cost is a yearly cost paid monthly

Daily rates will be for comparison

Even those 3 days have a yearly rate paid monthly

This, and so many of the other posters, particularly on the first page.

Ultimately, the Nursery need to take in £X per year to cover all costs. Yes, they could say "We don't charge you for Bank Holidays", but to do that, they will have to add a little more on to each other day, and then you end up with pithering about with different amounts each month, and ending up still paying the same amount over the year..
Personally I - and I think most families on a budget - prefer to just have 12 equal payments across the year.

private nurseries charge a huge amount in comparison to what they pay their very underpaid workers. There is limited correlation between the two. This is clearly about profit, not paying minimum wage workers. To think otherwise is incredibly naive.

I think you are the naive one. Nurseries are really struggling in my LA. They can't get staff. Nursery after Nursery after Nursery has closed in the last few months. I know it is a HUGE part of a young family's budget, but I also know that the majority of Nurseries are walking a tightrope financially. The Government funding just doesn't cover the costs.

FirstTimeBoyMum21 · 16/03/2024 18:16

We pay for all bank holidays and closure days… ie all weekdays in a calendar year.

I don’t particularly enjoy paying it (and also having to take a day off work) but they do still have to pay their staff 🤷‍♀️

RawBloomers · 16/03/2024 18:21

NewName24 · 16/03/2024 18:03

This, and so many of the other posters, particularly on the first page.

Ultimately, the Nursery need to take in £X per year to cover all costs. Yes, they could say "We don't charge you for Bank Holidays", but to do that, they will have to add a little more on to each other day, and then you end up with pithering about with different amounts each month, and ending up still paying the same amount over the year..
Personally I - and I think most families on a budget - prefer to just have 12 equal payments across the year.

private nurseries charge a huge amount in comparison to what they pay their very underpaid workers. There is limited correlation between the two. This is clearly about profit, not paying minimum wage workers. To think otherwise is incredibly naive.

I think you are the naive one. Nurseries are really struggling in my LA. They can't get staff. Nursery after Nursery after Nursery has closed in the last few months. I know it is a HUGE part of a young family's budget, but I also know that the majority of Nurseries are walking a tightrope financially. The Government funding just doesn't cover the costs.

The issue isn’t simply monthly v. pay as you go. It’s full week v. partial week.

Since BHs don’t fall evenly over the weekdays, nurseries who don’t have have different rates for each day of the week to account for it are screwing over their clients on Mondays (in particular) to the benefit of their clients on other week days.

LlynTegid · 16/03/2024 18:22

I think this is unreasonable and in a way is more unfair to some people. Bank holidays and other holidays for those who work in a nursery are a legal requirement and so the costs should be spread across the daily charge.

Those who can have flexible working arrangements or share days off between parents may not need as many days a week as those in some jobs. People may not start at nursery all at the same time of year, and there are more bank holidays between March and May than most of the rest of the year.

It's not as if bank holidays (introduced in the 1860s) and leave entitlements (1930s) are something new.

Nurseries are regulated and so a fairer charging policy could be required.

Cas112 · 16/03/2024 18:23

This is standard for pretty much every nursery, the rest of us have to put up with it

Danikm151 · 16/03/2024 18:26

It’s frustrating but standard for nurseries.
they also charge when your child is sick/ they close for teacher training/ special holidays.

We basically have to like it or lump it.

MoroccoMole · 16/03/2024 18:27

It doesn't seem very fair that the parents whose children go on Mondays have to cover the burden of the costs. The parents of tues-thursday children won't have this problem!

SnapdragonToadflax · 16/03/2024 18:31

Completely normal. Ours charged the same each month but was closed back holidays and between Christmas and New Year, like most.

I know it's falling when you're paying so much, but try not to think of it as a daily cost or you'll go mad with how often DC is off sick.

SmallPaperBoat · 16/03/2024 18:58

It is galling isn't it OP. Standard though.

I personally think all parents should be paying a contribute towards bank holiday costs in the regular fees. Otherwise a Monday-only parent is getting much less service than a Tuesday-only parent.

It's like how Royal Mail charges everyone the same for a stamp, even though some Mail travels 1 mile, and some Mail is collected from the outer Hebrides and travels to the other end of the country. Same charge for all, because everyone is contributing to the overall running cost of the service.

jannier · 16/03/2024 20:07

RawBloomers · 16/03/2024 17:52

What bit of “work out their pricing for the days they provide service.” And “wrapping them up into their total costs and working out their price from that.” makes you think I don’t expect them to cover their costs?

Do you find maths and reading comprehension difficult?

Ok I'll take it very slowly for you ...
If Nursery charge £9.60 an hour government scheme pays £4.75 an hour shortfall is £4.85 an hour £145.50 a week on 30 hours so to stand still and cover current costs new hourly rate has to be £24.50 and you want it now to additionally cover 8 bank holidays a year because funding isn't paid for those 8 days so an additional 80 hours a year needs to come from somewhere so that's another £37 going on your bill a week meaning unfunded 10 hours will now cost you in the region of £282 a week before funding that would have brought you almost 30 hours ......but the government rules don't allow settings to directly charge the difference in funding so most settings don't actually charge that amount and are now taking less for the same work with added costs for inflation. They then don't get anything for bank holidays but still pay labour and overheads.
Until now only 3 plus got funding but come September virtually 100 % of children will get some of it so the ability to get the loss back diminishes by every time the parent gains.
Why do you think nurseries and childminders are shutting?

RawBloomers · 16/03/2024 20:20

jannier · 16/03/2024 20:07

Ok I'll take it very slowly for you ...
If Nursery charge £9.60 an hour government scheme pays £4.75 an hour shortfall is £4.85 an hour £145.50 a week on 30 hours so to stand still and cover current costs new hourly rate has to be £24.50 and you want it now to additionally cover 8 bank holidays a year because funding isn't paid for those 8 days so an additional 80 hours a year needs to come from somewhere so that's another £37 going on your bill a week meaning unfunded 10 hours will now cost you in the region of £282 a week before funding that would have brought you almost 30 hours ......but the government rules don't allow settings to directly charge the difference in funding so most settings don't actually charge that amount and are now taking less for the same work with added costs for inflation. They then don't get anything for bank holidays but still pay labour and overheads.
Until now only 3 plus got funding but come September virtually 100 % of children will get some of it so the ability to get the loss back diminishes by every time the parent gains.
Why do you think nurseries and childminders are shutting?

None of that suggests it’s reasonable for nurseries to pass the costs of bank holidays from clients who don’t use Mondays to those who do. The government’s chronic underfunding of nursery places is only made worse by nurseries hiding it in this fashion and subsidizing those places with their direct paying clients.

Backintothewoods · 16/03/2024 20:26

Bu Jannier, that assumes every child who attends is funded and they aren’t. (As you know) it is only children who are three and over. I realise this is changing in the near future but right now the majority of children are paid for so to speak.

Your post also really misses the point that children who attend on Mondays and, to a lesser extent, Fridays, miss out in a way children who attend Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays do not. No one wants nursery workers to go without, just for it to be fair in the way it is billed. Otherwise some parents have to pay for service not received while others don’t.

jannier · 16/03/2024 20:33

RawBloomers · 16/03/2024 20:20

None of that suggests it’s reasonable for nurseries to pass the costs of bank holidays from clients who don’t use Mondays to those who do. The government’s chronic underfunding of nursery places is only made worse by nurseries hiding it in this fashion and subsidizing those places with their direct paying clients.

With your extensive knowledge of the rules on charging top ups and your understanding of the many posts on here complaining at how much they are now being asked to pay for non funded hours what do you suggest they do because many nurseries, lawyers for industry bodies etc haven't been able to find a solution are you really saying non funded hours should now cover all bank holidays so parents charges go up 300%.
Settings are loosing money earning less than 3 years ago and next month will lose more.....they are campaigning have you joined them to ask the government to pay the going rate for childcare? That's the only way increasing hourly fees could cover bank holidays.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 16/03/2024 20:35

£92.50 a day - for how many hours ?