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To feel like a minger at the dentist

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Anotherdayanotherusername · 16/03/2024 08:17

I've always tried to look after my teeth. I brush twice daily with an electric toothbrush, floss & use those little brushes to clean in between. I visit the hygienist at least every 6 months, every 3-4 months at their suggestion at times, but it's pricy!

However, within a couple of weeks of visiting the hygienist the tartare starts building up and is hard to control. I've even tried chipping it off with dentist tools I bought in Boots with limited success. By the time I go back to the hygienist, there's a significant amount to remove & I can tell she's not impressed. I once caught a glimpse of my notes which read "poor oral hygiene" which was mortifying. However, a dentist once told me that some people produce more plaque than others so need to work harder to control it. The gaps between my teeth are also very narrow so harder to reach.

I've just seen the dentist who says I have gum disease and bone loss. She's recommended a "non-surgical treatment" which is basically an hour long hygienist session but if that doesn't work I may need surgery to save my teeth. I'm so upset. She said that while they can do their best, a lot of it is up to me.

I'm wondering what I could've done to prevent this. Maybe brush my teeth after every meal or snack, which is not really practical. Turns out the brushes I've been using are the wrong ones for my teeth so have bought new ones, but probably a bit late. I would add that my teeth don't look bad. They're not as white as I'd like but I haven't needed a filling in years (don't eat much sugary stuff) and the gums don't bleed when I brush which I thought was a sign of gum disease.

Am I just unlucky or actually a minger?

OP posts:
peakygold · 18/03/2024 16:22

I thought the OP and thread were going to be so different! Like, when you go to the hairdressers, sit with wet hair in front of the mirror and cannot believe how ugly you are.
I've always felt a bit of a minger at the dentist because they are all so glamorous and 'together' with fabulous teeth.

Holifree · 18/03/2024 17:18

peakygold · 18/03/2024 16:22

I thought the OP and thread were going to be so different! Like, when you go to the hairdressers, sit with wet hair in front of the mirror and cannot believe how ugly you are.
I've always felt a bit of a minger at the dentist because they are all so glamorous and 'together' with fabulous teeth.

"thought it was about when you go to the hairdresser with wet hair" That made me really laugh 🤣

Justanything86 · 19/03/2024 20:17

peakygold · 18/03/2024 16:22

I thought the OP and thread were going to be so different! Like, when you go to the hairdressers, sit with wet hair in front of the mirror and cannot believe how ugly you are.
I've always felt a bit of a minger at the dentist because they are all so glamorous and 'together' with fabulous teeth.

Maybe you should come to where I work instead then peaky 😅 We look clean but that's about a far as any of us can manage.

FacingDivorceButSad · 19/03/2024 22:20

It might be down to how you floss and brush your teeth. If you aren't getting far enough round the gum with floss of close enough to the gum with the brush issues can arise. It might also be diet. Can you ask your hygienist to show you the best techniques for tackling your teeth? I was forced to go private when couldn't get on NHS but so happy I did as my hygienist really took the time to get me mastering my brushing and flossing technique. I didn't realise I was doing it wrong as no one ever pulled me up on it

CherryBlossom321 · 21/03/2024 11:01

To add, have a look for Dr Ellie Phillips on YouTube. Full of knowledge on oral care for those of us who have to work harder at it. It doesn’t all work for everyone, but I take the meat and leave the bones!

hangingonfordearlife1 · 21/03/2024 12:09

i have a stomach issue so acid reflux rotted my teeth, i now don't have any real ones they are all crowns and implants. bad teeth are also hereditary in my family...my kids however have beautiful teeth from their dad

Anotherdayanotherusername · 26/04/2024 19:30

OP here with a bit of an update.

Saw hygienist today for my 4 monthly appointment. The usual one was off sick and there was a stand in. I decided not to mention what the dentist and other hygienist had said. She said she'd start by checking for signs of gum disease. She said she could see a couple of areas which had mild inflammation due to tartare build up but "nothing drastic". She asked about my brushing/flossing routine and then congratulated me on doing a great job, saying that tartare build up was minimal and just gave a couple of tips on technique to improve further.

Not sure what to think now!

OP posts:
Hopeandmoss · 26/04/2024 19:38

How long have you had your electric toothbrush. I had issues with mine as I hadn’t realised the motor was worn and it wasn’t as effective as I thought it was

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