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Neighbours family blocking my drive.

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Whatdoyouthink65 · 14/03/2024 11:35

So I know this is a first world problem,
there’s much worse things happening but I can’t stop being annoyed non the less.

i live on a ‘ normal 1930 residential street. The house has a dropped kurb a in front of the garage side of the frontage, and we have a small driveway. I have an EV vehicle which lives on the drive ( when not being driven) so that
a) I can get the 2 under 3 year olds out/in easily and
b) it can charge when not being used. We have solar panels on the house and all the time they’re producing and the car is plugged in- it charges the car - essentially for free.

Our next door neighbour is elderly, and her daughter in law comes in a few times a day to care for her. If the space directly outside her house is taken by someone else she parks across my drive whether I am in or out.

usually there is a space outside my house ( not blocking the drop curb) as although literally anyone can use it, when my DH goes out to work it typically doesn’t get filled until evening when he may or may not be able to park there. We 10000% accept that on the on road parking it’s pot luck but I really really think I should be able to park on or get off my drive whenever I want.

i have asked them lots of times to stop doing it, but it falls on deaf ears. The final straw was that yesterday I was 35 minutes late picking DD up from nursery because I had to walk there unexpectedly after not being able to get my car off the drive… and today I’ve come
home with both kids and a full car of shopping and had to park about 800m away because she has parked half in the space outside the house and across the drop curb.

ive tried knocking on to ask them to move , but on both occasions they haven’t answered the door. They stay 90-120 mins per visit ( not a few minutes like just dropping off).

AIBU to be absolutely fuming?

OP posts:
Emotionalsupportviper · 17/03/2024 15:24

Emotionalsupportviper · 17/03/2024 13:23

You are an example to us all, and a credit to MN.

Sorry to quote myself - I just wanted to let @Justtobenosey know that I wasn't being sarcastic, I would do exactly the same.

AdultFemaleWoman · 17/03/2024 16:13

Watch out for the silly cow to pull up [it must be a regular thing] and go out and ask her not to park there.

Dinkydo12 · 17/03/2024 16:30

Such a pain. Get a A4 sticky label write Do not park here stick it on her windscreen . I would do this everytime she parked and blocked your drive. She would soon get the message.

OnePeachCrow · 17/03/2024 17:12

I find that sitting in my car with my hand on the horn tends to get whoever is blocking the drive to hurry out. It usually takes 10 minutes the first time but they soon realise it's not a good idea to block me in. I don't say please or thank you either. They shouldn't be in front of the drive.

doodleZ1 · 17/03/2024 20:29

Yes I was at my work once and left quickly at the end of the day as my car sharer had to get home early. Arrived at my car in the work car park to find this taxi driver parked behind me totally blocking me in. He saw me as I had to pass him to get in my car. His window was also down with his arm leaning out the window. I beeped my horn, he looked at me and ignored me. Now my workplace is very busy, there were lots of people around. I pressed the horn relentlessly and he just knew he didn’t want folk watching him and he moved. He thought he was going to hold me up and there was nothing I could do. Whereas reality dawned that he was going to have an audience. A big one.

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