I’ve worked at my job for 5 years. I love it, I feel like I’m actively doing something good, my boss is great and it’s really flexible around family/kids. The only issue is it’s not the best paid, I could get more if I was willing to change, but I like the company and I’m happy to be paid less and have a happier life.
a few months ago my manager told me she’s leaving. Not the most shocking news, pay isn’t great so lots of people leave to increase their wages. I spoke to my manager and her manager and we agreed that I would like to have her role, and that we could look at doing it as a quick internal vacancy. Did the interview and was told they’d like me to take on the role! Great! Then this week, the senior manager has told me that there’s a recruitment freeze and they’re not able to replace my manager. She’s asked me to take on the responsibilities of the role, without the title/promotion or pay increase. The company has form for doing this and then not replacing the person because the work is being done.
I’m so upset. Would I be unreasonable to refuse to take on any of her work at all? Or am I just cutting my nose off to spite my face and I should suck it up and take on the extra work with the theory that it’ll put me in good stead for when they can do pay rises? I like my job and don’t want to leave, but I don’t want them to take advantage of me