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Ex employer keeps contacting me

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northchesterforest · 13/03/2024 21:09

I was made redundant in January after 5 years in a role. They asked me to leave the same day. It wasn't personal as a lot of others in the company got the same treatment. The thing is, for the last two weeks I've been getting emails from my old boss asking where certain files are. Most of them were saved on my personal work g drive, which they are saying they can no longer access.

I must admit I wasn't great at organising my files for other people but I always knew where to access them, and honestly I was great at my job and a lot of what you would need to know was stored in my head, from working in the role for so long. I feel like they are accusing me of withholding information but do they even have a leg to stand on? Should I start ignoring them? I'm politely responding for now and trying to help them find things but I don't have access to anything anymore so there is only so much I can do?

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muggart · 14/03/2024 13:21

Rainydayweather · 14/03/2024 12:49

Its really poor form that you stored work files on your personal drive.

We have a similar system at my work and all work related files need to be on the shared drive, for obvious reasons.

Your personal drive on a work computer is for stuff no-one else needs to see, such as you planning what leave you will take, or whatever.

You really should have known better than this and I imagine they are mightily pissed at you for such unprofessionalism.

Completely agree.

The shared drive exists for a reason and people who didn't use it drove me mad at my last job, it makes everything so much harder for everyone else. I feel bad for your ex colleagues and can see why they're asking you for help but legally you aren't obligated to answer. Morally you absolutely should help as you've left them in a difficult position and, no matter how many times you say you were good at your job, in this area you let them down.

tanstaafl · 14/03/2024 13:27

What I don’t understand is how after the first email ( how did the boss get your personal email? ) when they presumably got the document from OPs G: drive, didn’t IT copy all the contents of OPs G: drive.

kitsuneghost · 14/03/2024 13:46

The OP got made redundant and told to leave same day
Not leave in a week when you get you head sorted and done some file
re-organisation

ConsistentlyElectrifiedElves · 14/03/2024 13:49

muggart · 14/03/2024 13:21

Completely agree.

The shared drive exists for a reason and people who didn't use it drove me mad at my last job, it makes everything so much harder for everyone else. I feel bad for your ex colleagues and can see why they're asking you for help but legally you aren't obligated to answer. Morally you absolutely should help as you've left them in a difficult position and, no matter how many times you say you were good at your job, in this area you let them down.

OK - granted, she shouldn't have saved company documents on a "personal" network drive, but how do you propose she helps them now? She hasn't worked there for 2 months and doesn't have access to anything.

They've asked multiple questions and there are only two possible places the documents could be saved - the main network or the G drive (also on the network, but a bit more difficult to find for someone without the appropriate IT privileges).

At this point, and given OP was told to leave on the day she got told her position was redundant, she wasn't given an opportunity to resolve the problem and there is literally nothing more she can do about it now other than tell them what she already has.

MikeRafone · 14/03/2024 13:52

Send this as an additional line in any further correspondence

I left all company files in order, I have been obliging up to this point as a gesture of goodwill, any further queries about storage of files should be addressed to me by March 31st. After this date I will not be able to assist you further and you should contact your own IT department.

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 14:12

Can the posters who insist on misunderstanding "personal drive" kindly go and find a subject they do know about to witter on about please ?

It's an unfortunate aspect of the big players (Google, and MS) in cloud land that the concept of a an individual filestore, as opposed to a shared one, has got called "personal".

The OP did nothing wrong and the "personal" drive they were storing their data on is merely one that only they could access in the normal scheme of things. Think of it as a drawer in your desk at work as opposed to a notice board.

Nothing can irritate me as quickly as corporate sales wankspeak infecting our daily lives. When Google and MS refer to "personal" in the settings of Workspace or O365, they mean "specific to a user" not "somewhere to keep holiday snaps".

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 14:15

tanstaafl · 14/03/2024 13:27

What I don’t understand is how after the first email ( how did the boss get your personal email? ) when they presumably got the document from OPs G: drive, didn’t IT copy all the contents of OPs G: drive.

We've already established they are incompetent.

Either they weren't subscribed to the right level, or they weren't paying for enough storage.

Having worked with a lot of creative types, raw photo files can take up terabytes in a few weeks.

Obviously a decent storage and archival process would manage that. But we return to the opening sentence of this post.

mumda · 14/03/2024 14:43

Their IT manager (and Google?) drive manager will have access.

Northernladdette · 14/03/2024 15:03

From their perspective, this is something they should have considered when letting you go. No handover…..
I’d be inclined to decline, but might you need a reference at some point? 🤔

Creamteasandbumblebees · 14/03/2024 15:19

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 13/03/2024 21:12

I'm afraid I'm not available to provide free support to the company as I am no longer your employee

Exactly this!

CatrionaCat · 14/03/2024 15:22

"Dear ex-boss

You made me redundant with immediate effect. If you had given me more notice, I would have been better able to prepare my files for handover but this was not possible due to the lack of notice.

Since my contract ended, you have already contacted me x times and I have responded to the best of my ability each time. As previously stated, all my work was saved to my G: drive and IT should be able to give you access to that. Obviously I no longer have access myself and therefore I can't help you further.

If you do require any further assistance from me, then I would be willing to consider it on a consultancy basis. I will need access to the system, including my former G: drive and I estimate it would take in the region of x hours to transfer all files across to shared drives and document the same.

My hourly rate for doing this would be x / or / Please let me have your proposal for the remuneration I can expect."

Then respond to any further requests with "Does this mean that you have agreed my consultancy terms? Please state this explicitly in writing. "

YesTonightJosephine · 14/03/2024 15:36

The words Off and F*ck come to my mind!

CFs of the highest order OP!

Do. Not. Cave. In.

Ignore them OR get them to pay you up front and up your hourly rate too, min £150 p/h and it must be a minimum of THREE hours or it is not worth it.

They should have thought about this when they let you go on the SAME DAY!

Good Luck!

Ex employer keeps contacting me
Pinkmushrooms · 14/03/2024 15:51

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 13/03/2024 21:12

I'm afraid I'm not available to provide free support to the company as I am no longer your employee

this

Ghosttofu99 · 14/03/2024 15:58

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 13/03/2024 21:12

I'm afraid I'm not available to provide free support to the company as I am no longer your employee

Or, “My hourly rate for freelance work is xxx!” My DH actually did this after leaving one of his jobs and they paid him to do something. Their problem if they were so tight fisted with saving payroll that they shot themselves in the foot.

Heidi75 · 14/03/2024 16:18

So they made you redundant on the same day with no consultation period, no putting you 'at risk of redundancy' then they haven't followed employment law and it's automatically an unfair dismissal as they have not followed correct procedure - you could take them to a tribunal, costs you nothing. Also you owe them nothing, you don't work for them anymore and the way they terminated you is wrong, I'd be very much saying not my problem.

beatrix1234 · 14/03/2024 16:46

Scottishskifun · 13/03/2024 21:13

No they don't have a leg to stand on but a bit strange that files were stored on your personal drive rather then a company access one.

I would respond back simply with as I am no longer an employee with IT access I cannot assist further then what I have already and leave it up to them to sort!

If you need a reference from this company I would be nice to them, if not the case then… you’re no longer “helpful”, so bye Felicia 👋

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 16:57

I don't know how much a reference from an incompetent company is worth, to be honest. Especially as it will almost invariably be a simple confirmation of dates worked and position held.

Vonesk · 14/03/2024 17:03

Do not be overtly hostile.
Think of your continuing career.
I hope you received due compensation for your redundancy as there are employment laws to think about.
With views to your on going career : I hope you have access yo excellent references from this company, if not : Now is a good time to request a written reference for your time there.

I know what its like, you move forward New Employer requests REFERENCE and when you enquire you are told ' that department has been moved and members dispersed.'
Other than that: offer to return for A Day ' s pay to tie up loose ends, demand LUNCH , TRAVEL EXPENSES. Oh And to collect that WRITTEN REFERENCE containing company LOGO/ STAMP.

NonPlayerCharacter · 14/03/2024 17:14

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 16:57

I don't know how much a reference from an incompetent company is worth, to be honest. Especially as it will almost invariably be a simple confirmation of dates worked and position held.

That's all you need. It's standard nowadays.

Blogswife · 14/03/2024 19:35

Just say “ Ive assisted to the best of my ability and I’m unable to help any further . I would be grateful if you could kindly refrain from contacting me further regarding this matter as I am no longer in your employment.”

Thementalloadisreal · 14/03/2024 19:38

northchesterforest · 13/03/2024 21:14

I should explain, the 'personal drive' is a company drive. I can't access it now I'm not at the company.

It's just that we had a another shared drive where we were expected to save things as well

That’s what I assumed, so it makes no sense why IT can’t access a company drive when an employee leaves

cakeorwine · 14/03/2024 19:43

Timetogohome2 · 14/03/2024 08:29

We would be in serious trouble if we saved things on our individual drives rather than the shared one in my role - the “you could be knocked down by a bus tomorrow” way of thinking definitely exists

I have worked with colleagues that save things down locally with the I will put it in the shared drive later attitude and it’s frustrating as it wastes so much time and can also be a huge risk

But in your case they gave you access to one and also didn’t give you time to sort your affairs before letting you go so they are in this position now

If you want to stay on their good side I would spend today thinking about what files you have saved locally that they might need and write a list and send it on with a note saying this is as much as I remember please don’t contact me for anything else as I don’t know

But IT can always access your One Drive.

So you could be knocked down, but people can get your files, get your emails etc.

cakeorwine · 14/03/2024 19:44

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 14:12

Can the posters who insist on misunderstanding "personal drive" kindly go and find a subject they do know about to witter on about please ?

It's an unfortunate aspect of the big players (Google, and MS) in cloud land that the concept of a an individual filestore, as opposed to a shared one, has got called "personal".

The OP did nothing wrong and the "personal" drive they were storing their data on is merely one that only they could access in the normal scheme of things. Think of it as a drawer in your desk at work as opposed to a notice board.

Nothing can irritate me as quickly as corporate sales wankspeak infecting our daily lives. When Google and MS refer to "personal" in the settings of Workspace or O365, they mean "specific to a user" not "somewhere to keep holiday snaps".

Exactly
It's like your own drawer.
And people are allowed their own drawers at work.

Abbimae · 14/03/2024 19:52

Ignore

HotChocolateNotCocoa · 14/03/2024 19:59

SerendipityJane · 14/03/2024 16:57

I don't know how much a reference from an incompetent company is worth, to be honest. Especially as it will almost invariably be a simple confirmation of dates worked and position held.

Yes, but a lot of MNers are curiously old-fashioned about this. They envisage candidates turning up for jobs with carefully typed references like the secretary in an 80s sitcom.

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