I start off with lovely gifts me and dh are currently working 7 days a week him physically and emotionally me emotionally and physically…I was with the kids all morning so when it came to the afternoon I thought take over time!
(We are owed 5 invoices well in the tens of thousands too v stressed!)
No he got really upset at take over time I told him straight go to your mums I don’t need this shit! I was really angry all our kids are really hard work and disabled.
Mum rings hi love how’s your Mother’s Day going?! I explain well it could be be better tell her oh isn’t pulling his weight with the kids today…and straight away it’s leave him fuck him etc…now I wouldn’t have a issue with this BUT my mum let one of her many men beat us for YEARS like literally coat hangers the lot!
I said he’s not being abusive just acting like a pig she carry’s on “get rid!” I feel it’s not serious enough to throw away ten years and 3 kids?! I’m angry but not that angry.
So I see red by this point “mother you literally let and sat and watched a man beat your kids for many years, your advice isn’t anything I would listen too infact the exact opposite!”.
Mum screams and cry’s down the phone hysterical you don’t know what I went through etc lol yes we did as we was beaten very badly!
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