Hi
I left a partner 9weeks ago as he started getting abusive towards me kick offs when drunk mainly
Calling me names wasn't nice
Since these 9 weeks he's seeked help an started medication constantly telling me he's changed he loves me he understands how much he's hurt me etc!
I was taken into hospital he was on my next of kin I didn't realise,
I asked my friend to bring me some stuff up but she didn't as she said she couldn't get out
He came to the hospital with bag of stuff I haven't seen him since he last left,
He's been very nice we even had a meeting when I came out of the hosptal with my family support worker.. he engaged well
When he's kicked off before I had him back straight away this time I haven't,
Now I'm thinking maybe he has changed an won't know until I sort of try maybe
But since seeing him somethings don't feel right maybe it's because I'm waiting for the kick off! He's helped me with it's my cleaning since being poorly made sure I'm eating etc
Last night he said he knows I love him but I don't show him enough, he said my ex I knew loved me but with you I'm very unsure!
Also in that 9weeks of him saying how much he loved me he had a one night fling.. an expects me to jsut get over it as it wasn't cheating.. and everyone is talking about him..
Now I'm on the mend I'm starting rtoneorry he's he played oh my vulnerability