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News features about toxic mothers today....

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 10/03/2024 12:08

So on my Google feed today I've seen several features about less than ideal mothers.

I get that motherhood isn't a guarantee of sainthood, and the stories in question are shocking and I truly do feel for their offspring.

My own relationship with my late mother could be difficult but luckily at the end of her life we had settled our hash so to speak, and as I got older and became a mother myself I was able to see she was a human being too with flaws informed by her own problematic childhood.

I just think it's interesting that on Mother's Day, there are these articles - is it just an attempt to balance things out ? Or a bit of a sideswipe to remind us that we're not perfect, although I know very few Mother's who think they are?

I'm sad today, missing my Mum particularly and other family matriarchs still with us but lost to dementia and poor health etc so I was a bit "Aww man, really?"

Obviously children failed by "bad" mothers should get their feelings acknowledged and be supported, and Mother's Day is tough for so many.

Not entirely sure why I'm posting, but thought I'd ask for opinions.

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MyLemonBee · 10/03/2024 15:36

I think it’s a case of journalists needing to fill column inches and trying to do so taking an ‘alternative’ angle on the subject of motherhood. By swimming against the tide I guess the hope is to get more clicks etc. Doesn’t bother me, if anything I find all the flowery pinky perfect mum stuff pretty infantalising and patronising. I have 2 boys I adore but for us today is just another day, I’m their mum every day and don’t need flowers or anything in return

AmazingLemonDrizzle · 10/03/2024 15:48

Yes I know what you mean. I had a difficukt childhood and did initlaly appreciate the odd acknowledgement but now it seems it's all that's out there.

We don't get the "wow yay mums and all they do" anymore. It's all about awful mums.

Almost a bit "what about the men" on iwd or focus on transwomen for an alt angle.

Celebrating actually women and actual motherhood and the "work" of that.... Nope.

jellyfishbubbles · 10/03/2024 15:49

I always thought the Google feed was fed on an algorithm? Is it just the normal news?

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