To be annoyed by my boyfriend

[Bear27]

New Partner of 6 months said we would meet up tonight but couldn’t give me an exact time because of other things he had to do. (We only see each other on weekends because of work schedules). I said ok and that I would be waiting. He called whilst I was in the middle of having a shower and didn’t see his call until half an hour later. I returned his call straight away and he said that he had made other arrangements with his friends now as he assumed I was busy. Am I wrong to be annoyed by this sudden change of events in such a short space of time

He's a bit impatient; it sounds like he was hedging his bets anyway if he was so vague about times

Doesn't sound like he's that into you I'm afraid. You'd think he'd like to see you after a week, but he was off out with his mates after just 30 minutes?

Who first mentioned meeting up originally - you or him?

You weren't his priority and he wasn't bothered about seeing you.
I'm really sorry if that sounds harsh

He shouldn't assume you weren't seeing him until you spoke to each other. He could have text or something. He was quick to make other plans.

I wouldn't be very impressed by him

As above a text I'll meet you at / be over at 8 nah I'm off out with mates.think it was always going to be that.

If this was me, he would find me 'unavailable' on his next 3 or so attempts.

Get yourself busy.

Wait longer before reading and replying.

Game playing?
Maybe, but he's testing you and seeing what he can get away with.

He doesn't sound very nice and I wouldn't call him a partner. He's just a boyfriend, and not a very pleasant one at that.

I'd believe he had no plans to see you and used the missed call as an excuse!

Yeah, that's pretty rubbish. Couldn't you have gone out with him and his friends?

I think you’ve had a very good warning of what he’s like.