Yesterday, a casual friend of mine (not a close friend at all, just someone I get on with and meet dog walking all the time and chat at length), bumped into me in the park and exclaimed, poking my belly "what's this? omg I didn't know you had a belly like this!" and then proceeded to joke "we've been eating right? We've had some nice food right?" Knowing this person, I don't think it was malicious... yet, I feel so incredibly upset about it. I told her about it in a message later and she responded saying that, as I've always been slim, she was simply "shocked to notice my belly". I'm going through perimenopause and it's the wrong time of the month. The whole perimenopause has been incredibly hard for me, combined with other things going on at home. Her comments really got me down. AIBU to think this is just incredibly and unforgivably rude, no matter how it was meant? Including physically poking my belly while looking totally shocked? I'm a pretty normal size 10-12, for context... I really look quite average sizewise....