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Marital problems

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mollyli · 06/03/2024 17:23

Hello all I don't know if I'm being unreasonable but I need to get this out. My husband and I have been married 2 years. In these two years he's quit a job, went back to that job after 6 months of being unemployed and soon was fired. Then he was unemployed again for about the same time.

Now he's working a new job and he's been there a couple months. I have been supportive through everything. But here we are again and he's trying to provoke his boss because he's upset about something the boss said.

I am tired of being the only person working full time in this marriage. I'm up at 5 am mon- Fri working ,taking care of the kids, cooking, cleaning etc. I pay all of the bills I do all the cooking. He needs to be " reminded " to get up and do the dishes. After I've been up all day. He tells his boss when he can and cannot work so he's only working maybe 2/3 times a week. 3 days on a good week.

I'm tired of having to take care of everything. And now I'm trying to be supportive but honestly I'm pissed. That again he's comfortable in possibly being unemployed again.

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mollyli · 06/03/2024 17:26

I have dealt with so much. Everything we do is what he wants to do. I no longer do anything that I love. I have maybe a hour everyday to relax and I'm really overwhelmed. I feel like I don't know who I am anymore.

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MiddleagedBeachbum · 06/03/2024 17:29

Are the children his?

Can you not leave him? Ask him to move out?

Aquamarine1029 · 06/03/2024 17:30

Why on earth did you marry this man? I have a feeling you turned a blind eye to some very obvious red flags.

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