We are not high earners but fall into with a combined 80k wage. We do not have university educations . We live in the South East commuter belt, have a mortgage, a car but no car payments. 1 dc at school with wrap around care plus clubs and 1 baby. Currently on mat leave. H has a commute.
I am currently on stat mat leave and in the unpaid portion. I don't have an enhanced package. I will take the full year. This baby was unplanned.
We have had a massive drop in income but financially while things are tight we have not had to touch our savings (yet) we saved as much as we could through pregnancy. And did already have savings. We manage by not having had a stupidly large mortgage (we bought under our budget - in case we couldn't afford to pay the mortgage in an unforseen event) not having a massive car payment, by not having loads of subscriptions, memberships, abroad holidays- we've still had on 2 with another 2 weeks at Easter booked, we eat well and still do activities and days out as a family but do more local and free activities pack a picnic etc. We have a warm house and the children are fed and clothed well as we are. We budget and mostly stick to it and have had some big purchases which were unplanned.
We have made financial decisions to the best of our knowledge and ability throughout. We have no family help or receive any benefits. My maternity leave has no rea impact to our standard of living.
The tax payer should not being paying more for me to be on mat leave. Having children is a choice (and yes, a privilege).
We will be much, much worse off and struggle when I return to work. We are both cutting our hours equally to help pay for child care, commutes and pay our bills. This shouldn't be the case that working costs more than not. I would prefer to see more funding for childcare provision, better maternity care and better pediatric care. This would have a greater impact than higher maternity stat pay. We are already very lucky with how much time and pay we receive compared to other countries.
Plan better in general and make better decisions/choices op. Don't rely on the state to fund your family especially if you're a higher earner. It's entitled and embarrassing. There are families struggling through no fault of their own who are returning to work early, have no help or financial assistance, who both work full time, or who are on benefits that are not fit for a decent standard of living or are single parent families.