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AIBU Is this or isn't this the done thing?

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SoOutingWhoCares · 05/03/2024 18:54

Persons A + C had their cars MOTd at a Test Centre that does only MOTs and charges the maximum legal amount of £54.85 which the Test Centre stipulates can only be paid in cash. It's an open secret in the town that this is most likely for tax avoidance reasons.

A, B and C met up in a pub recently.
B asked A if their car passed it's MOT and how much it had cost.

A said "£54.85 but obviously I just handed the £55 cash over."

B was horrified and commented that the done thing is to round it up £60 as you are supposed to include a tip for an MOT.

A seemed shocked and said they weren't aware this was a "thing" and asked C to back them up.

C agreed that you don't have to tip for MOT and agreed with A's argument that this particular garage avoids paying tax and that neither A, B or C get tipped in their respective jobs (carework, NHS and education) and also pay tax on all income. If it makes any difference, A is hard up and £55 is a significant amount of money at the moment.

B probed C further, only for C to admit they always tip an extra £10 when they get their car MOTd.

B thinks A is very rude and has committed a faux pas and the staff at the centre will be laughing at them being tight for handing over £55 exactly.

A thinks B is crazy and that most people don't tip when they get an MOT as it's a legal test and not a repair (though they admitted to tipping the mechanic that services/fixes their car).

C has a tendency of tipping everyone for fear of offending someone and is on the fence and isn't sure whether it's the done thing or not.

Who is in the right here?

YABU - It's the done thing to tip when you get your MOT done

YANBU - You don't have to tip when you get your MOT done

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VickyEadieofThigh · 05/03/2024 18:55

Tip for an MOT? Absolutely not.

Calculuses · 05/03/2024 18:55

It wouldn't occur to me to tip and I'd have waited for my change

Sirzy · 05/03/2024 18:56

It has never crossed my mind to pay a penny more than I need to for any work on my car!

itsmylifeitsnowor · 05/03/2024 18:57

Never have I or never will I tip for my MOT!

Tattletwat · 05/03/2024 18:58

Nah no tipping for MOTs.

Tipping is already going too far. It blow my mind people Tip hairdressers for doing their job.

TheFlis · 05/03/2024 18:58

I have never heard of anyone tipping a mechanic full stop, let alone for an MOT! That’s definitely not the norm where I live.

Websleuth · 05/03/2024 18:58

Calculuses · 05/03/2024 18:55

It wouldn't occur to me to tip and I'd have waited for my change

Haha yes, I was just thinking the same!

Herdinggoats · 05/03/2024 18:58

They are bananas. Of course you don’t tip for an MOT 🤣🤣🤣🤣

ancienticecream · 05/03/2024 18:58

Who tf tips for an MOT?? 🤣🤣

Dartmoorcheffy · 05/03/2024 18:58

DP is an mot tester. He just laughed his head off when I asked if he got tips.. the answer was no.

Ghentsummer · 05/03/2024 19:01

You're all dicks for colluding with tax evaders. Hope you never complain about underfunding in schools or hospitals.

Hatty65 · 05/03/2024 19:02

You don't tip a garage for carrying out an MOT, FGS! Why on earth would you? I'm another one that would have expected the 15p back and would actually be querying 'Why don't you have a card reader? I've never been to a garage that expected cash for repairs'.

Aprilx · 05/03/2024 19:05

Would not occur to me to tip for an MOT.

As an aside, being paid in cash in order to under declare income is not tax avoidance it is tax evasion. However, I would have thought it would be pretty simple to reconcile the amount of MOTs they conduct to the declared income, so I wouldn’t jump to this conclusion.

SoOutingWhoCares · 05/03/2024 19:07

@Ghentsummer In fairness the local (and preferred) garage is temporarily closed, we're rural with no one else nearby who can do MOTs and can't get to work (again, we're rural/cut off no train station or regular local buses) without our MOTs. This was first time using the MOT centre for C and second time for A (first time being during the pandemic when the garage was at capacity).

B is a "passenger princess" ironically.

And as we all work in healthcare and education we complain a lot and would welcome a tax investigation for tax evaders!

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HanaJane · 05/03/2024 19:08

No i wouldn't even think of tipping for an MOT, being tight would have been asking for change from £55 Grin

SoOutingWhoCares · 05/03/2024 19:09

Thanks everyone!

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Trinity69 · 05/03/2024 19:09

I’ve never ever tipped for an MOT or any kind of repair on my car. It’s expensive enough.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 05/03/2024 19:10

No - would not even think about tipping.

Having said that, Dh tips the works mechanic a kitkat for replacing his lightbulb in his company lorry ….so maybe it is a ‘thing’.

Midnlghtrain · 05/03/2024 19:11

😂 I'm definitely never tipping for an MOT! My next car service is going to be 1k+ imagine if I had to tip on that, no Thankyou haha!

Toomuchgoingon79 · 05/03/2024 19:12

No never tipped for an MOT!

LenaLamont · 05/03/2024 19:12

Sheesh, that’s perilously close to bribing them to give it a pass - I would never expect a garage to accept a tip on a regulated service, nevermind offering one

IdaPrentice · 05/03/2024 19:13

A 'tip' to a garage for an MOT would come across like, thanks for fiddling the results for me! Absolutely not the done thing.

shoppingshamed · 05/03/2024 19:13

Don't know the letters but anyone who thinks you have to tip for an MOT test is a bit simple, I'll be very surprised if you get anyone else who does that

BananaLlama123 · 05/03/2024 19:14

I've never tipped my garage for anything, it wouldn't occur to me. I tip 10% in restaurants usually and my hairdresser 1 but I only go once a year for a trim so she's not making bank from me...

SoOutingWhoCares · 05/03/2024 19:14

LenaLamont · 05/03/2024 19:12

Sheesh, that’s perilously close to bribing them to give it a pass - I would never expect a garage to accept a tip on a regulated service, nevermind offering one

A also made this point and asked C if that's why they tip a tenner!

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