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Are children teased for their name on school?

156 replies

LizardOfOz · 05/03/2024 16:05

I see on many threads the sentiment "don't call your child X , they'll be teased in school".

As a teacher for 15 years I have never heard a child's name being teased. At most it's an unwanted nickname eg Alex instead of Alexander. And never in a mean way. Just most Alexanders are called Alex.

What have other teachers/parents found

YABU : children are frequently teased for/about their name

YANBU : I have never heard of a child's name being teased by their peers either

OP posts:
circlesand · 06/03/2024 16:04

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 06/03/2024 13:17

But when you name your kids you don't KNOW what's likely to get them picked on. It only takes a dodgy celeb with the name you carefully hand-picked to be neutral and 'unbullyable' or a song brought out with that name in the title, or a piece of electronics (Alexa, I am looking at you). You can't legislate for the future.

Well, obviously. But you can avoid names that you do know will get them picked on.

SoupDragon · 06/03/2024 17:53

MereDintofPandiculation · 06/03/2024 15:39

Precisely. Once they've decided someone is the "outsider" (who they need in order to establish themselves as an "insider") then everything about them will become something they can be teased or bullied about. If the name is easy to use, they'll use that, if not it'll be their hair or their socks or how they speak or their height, or their shortness or something they once said.

Similar to political cartoonists - no matter how attractive (or just how normal) in appearance the politician is, the cartoonist can always find a feature to exaggerate.

Well, I think it's nonsense. 🤷🏻‍♀️

JoanThursday1972 · 07/03/2024 10:44

SkiingIsHeaven · 06/03/2024 15:34

Mine DD was called Isabell-end, so yes, some are teased.

A kid at my school named Isobel was chanted at - is a bell necessary on a bike? I have no idea how they came up with that one!

BeyondMyWits · 08/03/2024 16:17

JoanThursday1972 · 07/03/2024 10:44

A kid at my school named Isobel was chanted at - is a bell necessary on a bike? I have no idea how they came up with that one!

Knock knock... who's there? Isabell... Isabell who? Is a bell necessary on a bicycle...?

scorpiogirly · 08/03/2024 16:19

There was a boy called Ben Hunt in my school. You can guess what people used to call him.

Mimilamore · 08/03/2024 16:54

Nah, only if their parents have made nasty comments. Children learn to judge from the adults around them. Great in terms of danger but not so when it comes to human beings..

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