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'Middle class earners' - struggling to cope financially and can no longer afford comfortable living standards despite having household incomes of between £60,000 and £120,000- Guardian

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fluffykittens208 · 05/03/2024 09:28

https://www.theguardian.com/business/2024/mar/04/middle-class-workers-mortgages-bills-tax

Excerpts:

'Scott was just one of scores of middle-class earners who shared with the Guardian how they are struggling to cope financially and can no longer afford comfortable living standards despite having household incomes of between £60,000 and £120,000.
A report last month from the abrdn Financial Fairness Trust highlighted how Britain’s insecure jobs market and high housing costs are leading to the growth of a precarious middle class. These households are struggling to maintain a decent living standard on joint incomes as high as £60,000 a year. That compares with the median gross annual earnings for full-time employees of £34,963 last April.'

“It does seem that the only way to be on a middle income and doing OK at the moment is to be a Dink and living in the north.”

'Although respondents with children reported more precarious finances than those without, millennial childless couples say they barely have any disposable income either.'

Personally we am coping ok with a household income of £120k and still eat out/have a lot of city breaks, but I wonder if that is only because of our specific circumstances

  1. small 2 bed flat in zone 3 London so we don't have a car and where it is possible for DH to cycle to work. Would probably always stay in a flat even if income doubles so it makes more sense to stay in zone 3 if living in a flat.
  2. were able to live at DH's mum for 3 years while working in London and bought in 2019. We were able to overpay a mortgage on 2% interest during the pandemic and plough our pandemic savings into it which means the new mortgage rate isn't as painful.
  3. fertility problems so we are still DINKY and unlikely to have more than 1 child (am already 32 this year).

As a disclaimer i don't think the chancellor should cut taxes despite us all feeling the cost of living crisis as 40% of tax revenue comes from NI and income taxes so if they cut taxes, they would have to cut services and I have no desire to pay for healthcare privately in my old age.

But it feels very strange to read about people struggling in the news on our household income, probably means that the income threshold to be 'comfortable' (without very specific circumstances that lower your cost of livin) is much higher! Would hazard around £150k to £250k now. Basically we are going to be a hugely unequal society where only the top 5% can expect all the middle class fixtures and the rest of us have to pick and choose or live a life of penury and no luxuries i.e. car or property in expensive location; 2 children and no savings or 1 child and savings. Far luckier than those in the bottom 50% obviously but i am not sure how you can say you are middle class when the only reason you can afford to eat out and have nice holidays is cos you purposefully cut back on things people used to expect if you were doing semi well i.e. 2 kids in a suburban semi and a car on the driveway.

‘It’s all fallen flat’: households earning more than £60,000 on how they are struggling financially

Mortgages, bills and highest tax burden in 70 years pile on pressure despite healthy incomes

https://www.theguardian.com/business/2024/mar/04/middle-class-workers-mortgages-bills-tax

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Redpaisley · 05/03/2024 16:00

KevinDeBrioche · 05/03/2024 15:51

We earn around £120k between us and are very comfortable. SW city. We live frugally in many ways - one old car, went for the local slightly dodgy comp over private, never waste money but happy to spend on things that we deem important - but the main thing that helped is now is building a life on one salary, adding a second when kids were young BUT maintaining the one salary financial commitments.

so no bigger house, no second car, no fancy holidays. We saved and paid down the mortgage so now, despite rate hikes, it’s totally manageable and we can afford to absorb the food and fuel increases

yes, childcare and housing is expensive but people also need to take responsibility for their choices. Both can be true.

But the question is why should people live frugally? Does life have to be struggle - bad weather, no fancy holidays, no eating out. What do people do if they don't have kids. Just live like machines with office to home with no pleasures in life because they have to make a choce between saving for future or a little pleasure in life, and get depressed. UK is no Spain where you can just go to the beach with some bread and wine or even a local plaza and have fun for very little money.
I think people in the UK should demand more from their employers.

lovelysoap · 05/03/2024 16:00

OP i am so sorry for your fertility issues i wouldnt wish it on anyone.

In my road of 9 houses, only three are mortgaged the rest have been owned outright for years, i am in the south east. A third of properties are owned outright in the Uk i think. There is a lot of inheritance and wealth flying about in this country.

Moreorlessmentallystable · 05/03/2024 16:01

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 05/03/2024 15:57

But your saying you are only not struggling due to savings and not your salary?

I never said I was personally struggling ☺️ I was merely explaining how can people struggle on those salaries for those that didn't think it was possible, just because they have an income of 20k...

underthebun · 05/03/2024 16:01

Obviously I’m basing prices on what my neighbours houses have sold recently for…

I'm not saying it doesn't suck. It would be amazing to sell at a good profit and have that much more to spend and save. But I'm just very aware of people who are so much worse off.

Of course people are worse off but I don’t think that should mean you aren’t annoyed that you’ve lost money on your flat.

whatkatydid2014 · 05/03/2024 16:03

fluffykittens208 · 05/03/2024 15:32

which part of the north is this?

My friend keeps telling me that his ex londoner friend bought some 100k house in Urmston. this was in 2019 when i was buying my london flat for 400k. i am guessing that house prices have gone up but if its 100k then how much more can it be? £150k?

So I’m on north east coast and that’s true for the nice bits here now. 10 years ago it was lots cheaper. My friend has family here and it’s still a lot more affordable. The primary school is nice, village centre is pleasant, nearby town bit naff but has the big supermarkets, couple of decent places to eat and a nice small theatre plus the secondary school is decent, fairly new and has good facilities. North west is more expensive

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/140917730

Check out this 3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale on Rightmove

3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale in Summerdale, Shotley Bridge, DH8 for £190,000. Marketed by Harrington Brown Property Ltd, Shotley Bridge

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/140917730

Zanatdy · 05/03/2024 16:03

I’m on 63k but single income, 3 kids but only 1 under 18, but 1 at Uni needing some support with food from me (his dad finds accommodation and fee’s). I am renting, finally have a deposit after living in ex’s house for 3yrs when he lived overseas but can only afford a small 2 bed flat (I’m renting a 2 bed flat) so decided to wait 2.5yrs until DD goes to Uni and I’m going back north. Means I’ll be almost 50 starting a mortgage. 63k for me after tax and pension etc is £3500 a month, with rent of £1400 that’s comfortable but far from well off and as I say I’m living in a 2 bed flat so sleeping on a sofa bed in Uni hols. It’s far from luxurious. Just paid a nice tax bill too from before my recent promotion when I had child benefit still so had to repay that.

boys3 · 05/03/2024 16:04

Heatpumphero · 05/03/2024 15:52

This thread is just looking at earnings. Not wealth. It’s like that chap on question time a few years back who was lambasted cause he said he didn’t feel rich and he was on £85k. Those that are wealthy don’t have mortgages, they have inherited wealth. It’s those we ought to be taxing more heavily, not the country’s workers.

Indeed @Heatpumphero

Capital gains have almost tripled over the last decade to £65bn. Despite this most people never receive any capital gains with less than 3% of adults paying capital gains tax over a ten-year period.

in 2020 more than half of all taxable gains went to just 5,000 people. Who received an average of over £6.8m per person in gains.

more gains in the parliamentary constituency of Kensington than all of Wales. One neighbourhood in Kensington comprising just 6400 people had mire gains than Liverpool, Manchester and Newcastle combined.

underthebun · 05/03/2024 16:04

There is a lot of inheritance and wealth flying about in this country.

My in-laws house was 60k in the 80s about 1.8m now. Similar story for my parents. I think 1 in 5 pensioners is a millionaire when you look at houses & pensions. There is huge intergenerational inequality & it’s becoming more about what & when you can inherit vs what you can earn which is regressive.

Goldenbear · 05/03/2024 16:05

justteanbiscuits · 05/03/2024 15:48

OK. I'm 49. Mortgage was paid off at 42 mix of lucky in housing market, but were partly made our own luck as we moved form high cost zone 2 west London, to low cost East London suburbs for more affordable housing. Our current joint income is approx £75k, and has barely changed for the last ten years!

Holidayed every other year in 20's to over pay mortgage. Had kids in thirties and 'holidays' generally consisted of staying with close family until things evened out. Didn't eat out much.

Kids now early teens so no child care costs. And obviously we paid off the mortgage. We now do relatively cheap abroad holidays (we're able to save around £4k a year to do this. Booking a cheap 3* hotel but in a nice area gets us a 10 day holiday. £2.5k for hotel, cheap flights and then the rest for food, drinks and excursions). Kids have hobbies that aren't the cheapest, so we tend to save towards that too. I use Hello Fresh, but our household weekly spending has actually gone down by using them as no longer tempted by random crap in the supermarket. Don't have any loans or credit cards, but then, also don't have any real emergency savings either!

The big difference between us and friends is the mortgage. We bought a smaller, cheap house. We don't have an extension, or fancy home office in the garden, and so we haven't mortgaged to the max to get bigger and fancier. It's not perfect, but it does. And did we want to move to east London suburbs? Hell no. But financially it was our only real option.

Yes but your 49, this is at the end of the windfall from London housing. You didn't really do much that is radical. I have older siblings that did the same and the difference of being 6/7 years younger is all it is.

harrietm87 · 05/03/2024 16:05

Yes @underthebun - imo in London that’s what has the biggest impact on disposable income. Unless you were lucky enough to benefit from family help
or bought your property decades ago you are basically screwed by the property market.

It’s a little galling to be preached at for making bad “choices” or being told to “cut your cloth” by people who were just right place time and/or borrowed from the BOMAD.

Yes it is a first world problem but I get paid a ridiculous amount of money and work ridiculously long hours. I pay close to £100k in tax per year. My 3 bed terrace cost £750k and my mortgage is huge. I had no family help at any point. I have a whopping childcare bill as I work full time. My neighbour lives in an identical house but she bought it 10 years before me for £200k (deposit gifted by parents) so is now mortgage free. She works 3 days per week and is paid a fraction of my salary but has significantly more disposable income because she has no mortgage and hardly any childcare costs.

From the outside I am the “successful” one - I got a double first from Oxbridge and am senior in my high paid job - but my life and my whole family’s lives are much less comfortable and more stressful than my neighbours’.

Geotheanum · 05/03/2024 16:05

fluffykittens208 · 05/03/2024 15:59

commuting is at least £400 per person. £800 in total for a couple.

It was cheaper for me to stay in london in a 2 bed flat vs a 2 bed terraced in the home counties. Plus no need to run a car in zone 3 london.

From Watford it’s between £3100 to £3900 / yr.
but the rent saving given PPs previous comment would fill that loss very quickly with a minimum saving on rent (for a 3bed ) of £1000pm.

Zanatdy · 05/03/2024 16:06

whatkatydid2014 · 05/03/2024 16:03

So I’m on north east coast and that’s true for the nice bits here now. 10 years ago it was lots cheaper. My friend has family here and it’s still a lot more affordable. The primary school is nice, village centre is pleasant, nearby town bit naff but has the big supermarkets, couple of decent places to eat and a nice small theatre plus the secondary school is decent, fairly new and has good facilities. North west is more expensive

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/140917730

I’m tempted to move to County Durham where I’ve seen terraces for 50k or under. Could mean I could buy outright! Tempted to persuade DD to go to Durham Uni and I’ll live nearby for 3yrs and save what I’d spend on rent, then sell up and head to native North west. I’m priced out of the south east and always have been but I came here 22yrs ago for work and then ended up stuck here after breakdown of relationship so kids could be close to dad and better schooling. 2.5yrs and I’m free!

Ahugga · 05/03/2024 16:08

Geotheanum · 05/03/2024 15:52

If you’re looking Watford or Harrow ( for example ) are very commutable and within that price range….just.
Also on the underground

The only property in either of those locations within that budget is a listing that hasn't been updated since August (in other words, not available). You need to move significantly further out, which means more money on the commute.

fluffykittens208 · 05/03/2024 16:10

Zanatdy · 05/03/2024 16:06

I’m tempted to move to County Durham where I’ve seen terraces for 50k or under. Could mean I could buy outright! Tempted to persuade DD to go to Durham Uni and I’ll live nearby for 3yrs and save what I’d spend on rent, then sell up and head to native North west. I’m priced out of the south east and always have been but I came here 22yrs ago for work and then ended up stuck here after breakdown of relationship so kids could be close to dad and better schooling. 2.5yrs and I’m free!

The article says Lillian from county durham is experiencing financial difficulty despite a combined income of £70k.her doer upper means £25k repairs. She is 36 years old but has no savings other than pensions.. Living on paycheck to paycheck.

It seems nowhere is safe!

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RiderofRohan · 05/03/2024 16:10

Goldenbear · 05/03/2024 15:59

He's not in finance, he is an Associate Director/Architect, it absolutely does mean he can budget, it is literally his job to manage budgets and costs! So isn't the reverse just as likely if not more likely, that people's professional knowledge does inform personal decisions. My DH's uncle is a Doctor, he is always using his medical knowledge to help his family. Property developers will make decisions about their own property based upon their business knowledge. I use my knowledge of Info security for my personal systems. I think using this to your advantage is far more likely than self sabotage!

Well, I'm a doctor and when I was in training the consultant cardiologists I worked for would notoriously go out the back and smoke in between angiograms.

Yes, you might have more knowledge. It doesn't mean you implement it well and use it to your advantage.

So saying hubby does x,y or z and therefore must be good at budgeting is untrue. It's just a sweeping assumption that might be part of the problem.

underthebun · 05/03/2024 16:10

@harrietm87 I agree with you. I don’t earn anything like you (combined low 6 figs) but I work 3 days a week. My home is worth similar to you but I didn’t buy it for that. The most I paid in childcare was £600 a month as family helped & I wasn’t f/t. Earnings are only part of the picture.

Newbalancebeam · 05/03/2024 16:11

Just had a look at my costs compared with three years ago when we got a mortgage, fixed for another 2 years as yet. Including mortgage, we needed £4000/month to live on then. For the same things, it now costs us £5000/month. Bills are up £500 and food shop/sundries also up £500. We have each had small pay rises (around £500/year each) which have helped, but we’re in a worse position now than we were in 2021. We’re not even standing still, we’re actually going backwards!

ItsAllAboutTheDosh · 05/03/2024 16:11

@harrietm87 I am a low earner and also received no help from family i.e. since I was 18 I paid for everything myself or with my husband. Everything.
Those who receive inheritances will always have a head start, it is how it works.

TerrifiedOfNoise · 05/03/2024 16:12

RandomMess · 05/03/2024 09:51

You can only really compare net income after housing costs - mortgage or rent.

Sure mortgage is investing in an asset but posters saying they earn £24k and are fine presumably aren't paying £15k a year in rent out of that income?

I say that as someone who is ok on our income because our mortgage is low, we don't have holidays but I have very much noticed that our standard of living has gone down despite having £10k more income a year than pre Covid.

This! My income has gone up 15k since covid (teacher so went up pay scale and got promotions) but after pension contributions I only earn a few hundred more a month and this has all gone on the extra bills and general price increases like food and the mortgage. I feel very fortunate not to be in dire straits, but I would be without the pay rises and promotion and don’t really feel the benefit of them they have just helped me keep afloat rather than improving my lifestyle.

harrietm87 · 05/03/2024 16:14

ItsAllAboutTheDosh · 05/03/2024 16:11

@harrietm87 I am a low earner and also received no help from family i.e. since I was 18 I paid for everything myself or with my husband. Everything.
Those who receive inheritances will always have a head start, it is how it works.

It’s not (solely) about inheritances though, it’s about the massive increase in property prices over a very short period of time. It’s created a massive gulf between those who bought property in the 90s and earlier (all now millionaires) and everyone else.

It’s not right as it means that your earnings are essentially irrelevant.

Redpaisley · 05/03/2024 16:15

Pinkfluffypencilcase · 05/03/2024 15:45

I earn under 20k and have cut all luxuries. Not that I had many.
Basic cheapest broadband
Freeview tv, no packages
No nights out
no holidays/ weekends away
no gym membership.

The middle earners seem to still have these things. I get the expectation of earning that and what it could buy in terms of lifestyle but it’s not possible rn.

i used to be able to cope with emergency costs or maybe a holiday every 5 years but no longer.

UK is 6th largest conomy in the world, but this is still acceptable. You should have some basic luxuries in life when you live in a developed country - more than Freeview TV. But politicians in the country are so privileged and corrupt, and want you to be grateful that you are at least surviving. Where is the plan to create jobs, investment in technology, better energy sources, making the country attractive for big companies to invest in the economy. Politicians do nothing and we don't hold them accountable.

Lovingthegrungerevival · 05/03/2024 16:15

harrietm87 · 05/03/2024 16:05

Yes @underthebun - imo in London that’s what has the biggest impact on disposable income. Unless you were lucky enough to benefit from family help
or bought your property decades ago you are basically screwed by the property market.

It’s a little galling to be preached at for making bad “choices” or being told to “cut your cloth” by people who were just right place time and/or borrowed from the BOMAD.

Yes it is a first world problem but I get paid a ridiculous amount of money and work ridiculously long hours. I pay close to £100k in tax per year. My 3 bed terrace cost £750k and my mortgage is huge. I had no family help at any point. I have a whopping childcare bill as I work full time. My neighbour lives in an identical house but she bought it 10 years before me for £200k (deposit gifted by parents) so is now mortgage free. She works 3 days per week and is paid a fraction of my salary but has significantly more disposable income because she has no mortgage and hardly any childcare costs.

From the outside I am the “successful” one - I got a double first from Oxbridge and am senior in my high paid job - but my life and my whole family’s lives are much less comfortable and more stressful than my neighbours’.

If you're paying close to 100k in tax, how on earth can you be struggling to pay a 750 k mortgage?

Isitautumnyet23 · 05/03/2024 16:15

CantDealwithChristmas · 05/03/2024 09:34

A lot of the middle class people I know made silly financial decisions in the years of QE as they assumed that interest rates would be rock bottom forever. Taking out overly large mortgages, etc. Anyone with a modicum of economic sense would know that the rate cycle would change so that's on them.

I just think that some of the middle class needs to recalibrate their ideas of what a 'comfortable standard of living' means.

To most people, having a safe and warm roof over your head, being able to eat well and healthily, having a car, a holiday per year, kids have basically what they need, decent sociallife = comfortable standard of living.

If others believe 'comfortable standard of living' includes such monied privileges as several foreign holidays a year, wraparound paid childcare, a cleaner, two cars, designer gear and homeware, paying for your kids' uni tuition, cheap credit card debt, then...yeah, that's not the Government's fault, it's those individuals who just need to recalibrate their ideas a little bit.

It's fine, the rate cycle will turn again soon (although we're unlikely to get back to rock bottom wihin the next decade, in my view). The key is not to take out too much debt whether that's secured or unsecured.

Agree…we fall into the income bracket and I consider us ‘doing well’ that we have a holiday abroad most years. I do think people have got used to multiple holidays/weekends away, help around the house (its £15-20 an hour for a cleaner where I live so you need to be earning alot to justify that) and just generally feel hard done by if they cant have beauty appointments/spa days/tons of meals out etc. Now that people are paying more for their mortgages/COL crisis, perhaps they have to learn the lifestyle they had wasn’t really that normal middle class.

I have my hair done every few months (no other treatments), a spa is a rare treat (hen do etc) and we clean our own home around work. I wonder if the people whinging in that bracket are really living a middle class lifestyle or trying to aspire to a life they really cant afford.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 05/03/2024 16:16

Ghentsummer · 05/03/2024 09:53

But what benefits do you get to top up that salary? And people on 60k will be paying a lot more tax proportionally to you, especially once you add in any benefits you receive.

Our income is around 24k a year. Currently claiming no benefits because our savings are too high to be worth bothering because we need a new roof that we've been saving for and can't get a loan because we don't have enough spare income to pay it back. When the roof is sorted - and our savings almost completely wiped out - we're going to have to see if we're eligible for UC.

We are lucky in that we have no housing costs. Unlucky in that DH is incredibly restricted in the work he can do because of DS who's autistic and so is essentially self employed and earning a pittance - we're waiting for a decision on DLA for DS. I don't know how much we'd be paying now if we still had a mortgage - it was around £350 5 years ago, but our income was 33k then.

underthebun · 05/03/2024 16:16

Those who receive inheritances will always have a head start, it is how it works.

No, work should pay

”The Resolution Foundation calculated that had wages continued to grow as they were before the financial crash of 2008, the average worker would make £11,000 more per year than they do now, taking rising prices into account.”

“In fact, what are known as "real wages" haven't seen sustained growth for 15 years”

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