Being told I’m unloveable

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Those of you who have been following my dilemma over the past few weeks, thank you for all the help.

today I was told the reason that he doesn’t love me or act like a proper partner is because
a) I don’t agree with him spending all his time with MiL
b) I don’t want to deep clean the house

ive never found it more funny that I’m unloveable!

to clarify - I clean and tidy but it’s around other thing, I don’t dedicatedly clean like Mrs Hinch and well you all know that seeing his mum every lunchtime, Friday and weekends was too much for me!

very very very odd

he doesn’t want to be with you
he sounds unpleasant
you can’t force him to and why would you want to
let it die in peace

oh…. are children involved?

shit

I have just read the sordid mess of this relationship in your past threads and there are children involved 😞

Yes children involved. He says the last time we had this conversation he was upset about the kids. Not me, doesn’t care about losing me just upsetting the kids.
who will benefit more from having happy parents than together ones IMHO

I haven't read your other posts.

Do you have plans to leave this shitehawk?

Yes after again it being told anything nice or positive about myself just a spiralling pit of
how he loves his mum and wants to spend time with her and how nasty I am that I don’t want to. she’s going away next week and he’s besides himself, almost crying today thag he is worried

You've posted multiple threads about your horrible partner now, and I think it's probably now getting to the point where you're channelling your energy into telling Mumsnet about every terrible thing he does, rather than into actually leaving him. How many more times, honestly, do you need people to confirm that your husband is an arsehole? You know that already and you know you need to leave him.

this

everyone including your partner is telling you it’s over

He's horrible, if you're so unlovable he should finish things. He prefers to stay I your life treating you like shit??? That makes him feel like the big man.

Thanks KreedKafer. I am but being as I’m not sat on £250k and don’t have family to house me, it’s not something that’s gonna happen in a week or two, so please feel free to block me or ignore me or whatever you need to do to stop me appearing in your feed. I’m hoping other people won’t mind hearing my boring stories while I try and cope with the hell on earth that is leaving a LTR with no one on earth to talk to.

I strongly suggest that instead of posting on AIBU, which is pointless, you post on Relationships and ask for advice on how to get on with leaving him.

I don’t know why he’s stayed with me being as I’m so horrendous! Even when I can still find things to like about him it seems there’s nothing at all he likes about me.
ill be so glad to be gone

Sorry I didn’t realise I was posting incorrectly. I’ll try to delete this

He sounds an unpleasant oddbod. Diarising his tedious offensive utterances via Mumsnet isn't going to help you in the long run. Get rid of him, or find a way to put up with it if you can stand a man like that in your life. You probably need to do The Freedom Programne online at this stage if you've not got up and made a move yet.

Just ask MNHQ to move it to Relationships.

Thank you I think I have contacted them

Just report your own OP. and ask them to move it.