I've changed my username for this post & it describes the way I'm feeling. I should be grateful for my life, no real health issues or money worries etc. The problem is DH & I are self employed & we both work from home in 2 seperate 'office' rooms. I have good days & bad days. DH is an absolute trouper but to be honest a lot of people would describe him as a workaholic. He loves it but for me its just a job with up times & down times. Today I feel like screaming & pacing the floor just listening to him on the phone. I can hear him now sounding so motivated & happy & here I am feeling like tearing my hair out. We do have breaks & nights out but it still feels like work work work. Our children are at uni so no stresses there. I have one son who does call me a lot for support if hes struggling with his studies. I have a sister too who is always looking for advice about one problem or another. I've always been looked upon as the agony aunt in my extended family. That shouldn't add to my anxiety but it does. I also feel guilty for not generally working as hard as DH in day to day business but I take care of most of the household tasks although he does his share too. All in all I have a wonderful DH who I really love, a good home & should have nothing to complain about. I'm constantly anxious these days & today everything is literally driving me to distraction. DH just walked into my room & asked if I was. ok. He could tell by my expression there's something wrong. I had to breathe deeply so I wouldn't scream or punch the wall. He doesn't deserve that. This doesn't happen every day but it builds up & today is one of my bad days. Can anyone relate or AIBU.