I have a friend who I met over 3 years ago now, I would class her as someone I speak to the most.
There has however been a lot of drama surrounding her and the drama she causes in other people’s lives. For example, I’ve told her in confidence about issues I was having with someone else in the friendship group and then she told that person when they was drunk knowing that they kick off and it did - it nearly destroyed the friendships between everyone.
The latest issue was regarding my ex. We split up on really bad terms, my ex had been cheating pretty much the whole time. My friend was at an event with a few people that know my ex (I don’t know them) and was going around asking questions about my ex and what my ex had told them, telling them what my ex did.
I have lost the plot over it - I’ve told her that it’s not her place to do that, it’s shit stirring and causing drama on purpose as she doesn’t know who they are going to go and tell and I don’t want my ex then ringing my phone asking why everyone is talking about them when it has nothing to do with me.
I have told her that I’m sick of her causing issues - I can name plenty of times where people have called me kicking off because she’s shit stirred or caused drama that I’m not even involved in or know anything about. I said that she is now an untrustworthy friend and the next time someone calls my phone over drama she has caused will be the very last time because I’m sick of it.
She said I’m being too harsh and over reacting basically.
AIBU?