At this point I just need to hear your opinions and try to relax from the nightmare I live day by day and listen to your opinions to know if I am crazy or if I am right. Me and my boyfriend came on vacation to his country , the idea was to stay in a cabin that his parents have on another island to have more privacy and not stay at my in-laws house. Sandly we have been here longer because my boyfriend lost his job at that time, it has been 8 months here and it will be one more year due to the new job he has now. The nightmare started as soon as we arrived, my in-laws started coming every day,they have an extra key, so they enter whenever they want, they opened the door whenever they wanted, they came in even if we were not here (we have even jumped out of bed on a Sunday because they appeared and opened the door), they never tell us when they come, the worst thing is that it is every day. Next to the cabin my in-laws had bought a house for a move in the future, what a coincidence that a week after arriving they were already starting to make the necessary renovations because mysteriously they wanted to move as soon as possible (I know they want to do it because we are here). My father-in-law has been coming every day, without missing a day (if God blesses me he may not come one day and I can relax), he comes and stays all day. They know absolutely everything we do and unfortunately even how we live. You can imagine that I have to clean every day even if I don't feel like doing it just because I know that they can show up at any moment and that makes me constantly tense. As that house is almost finished, my mother-in-law has also been coming over very often and if I go out to the gym or for a walk... I have her at the window as if she were Rapunzel, asking me where I've been, that means I'm already mentally preparing myself to see her there watching everything. I am too shy and sometimes I like to be alone, my boyfriend has talked to them and has expressed that we want more privacy but nop, not changed anything, they only make light knocks and enter, they do not wait to be attended or they text when they are already outside. I can't afford to walk around without a bra or try not to comb my hair one day or leave dishes to wash the next day... I live on some islands, they have their house 20 minutes from where we came and they still came every day... even if there was a storm outside. Me and my boyfriend love each other but this is starting to put our relationship at risk. Thanks for reading me and sorry if this is too long , my English is not the best.