I'm 29, recently separated from DH (just one close female colleague knows about this) and have a DS.
A male colleague (looks to be late 30's/early 40's) makes things a bit awkward. For instance today, as he was walking towards me, he was blatantly checking me out, looking me up and down and then said I look nice and he liked my dress. He went on to ask when I'll be going to the staff room this week and what my weekend plans are. He also said I am great at my job and colleagues have said they love working with me. And concluded by expressing how happy he was to see me.
He said all of the above in a space of 5 minutes - I was waiting in the hallway to go into a meeting room. We don't see each other often and this is probably the 4th time we speak (more like a brief chit chat/small talk).
He also never breaks eye contact and looks mesmerised in a way that he's analysing everything I say/do or he's having back thoughts.
Am I over thinking this? I ask because prior to this job, I was working from home for a couple of years so don't know what's considered as standard workplace behaviour.