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Nicer houseshare Vs my own place?

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Backtolife14 · 27/02/2024 16:17

I take home about £1680 net (37h per week) can be up to £1900 with consistent overtime.
I am hoping to save to buy my own place eventually, my parents have offered to help towards the deposit which is very generous, but I want to save as much as I can.
I'm in Merseyside so prices aren't that high, and I'm honestly looking for something in the region of 70-80k which you can certainly get around here.
Anyway I'm currently in a houseshare which was a mistake, not sure whether to go for a nicer houseshare or just rent a flat alone.
It's going to be at least a year before I save up if not more. I've seen an en suite room which is much better than I currently have, it'll be less than a third of my base take home pay without overtime too. Or for an extra couple of hundred I could get a small studio/1 bed flat.
I don't under any circumstances want to share a bathroom again with strangers.
Just wondered whether people thought I should go for a nicer houseshare and still be able to save, or pay a bit more for my own place?

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redalex261 · 27/02/2024 16:19

Go for your own place unless you can share with people you know and can manage to live with.

BillStickersWillBeProsocuted · 27/02/2024 16:34

From the title my immediate reaction was own place - other people are the worst!

But having read the whole post I think in your position I would go for the flat share with the en-suite, redouble the saving efforts and deal with it for a year to 18 months.

It's really a gamble though. If you get a house share where people are basically clean and keep to themselves it'll be fine - but if you have loud/selfish/messy people it could be hell! Hopefully a nicer more expensive place it more likely to bring in nicer people? And at least either way you'd have our own bathroom!

rainbowbee · 27/02/2024 16:42

Your own place. Nothing beats it.

Elphame · 27/02/2024 16:50

Your own place.

I hated house sharing as a student and couldn't do it again.

beAsensible1 · 27/02/2024 16:52

I’d go for flat share with en-suite, but interview and check the place and people over first.

your goal is to save money, with an en-suite it will be easier to keep to yourself

rookiemere · 27/02/2024 16:54

I would try another house share with en suitr- I presume you don't have to give much notice if it doesn't work out.

Herdinggoats · 27/02/2024 16:58

You don’t like sharing a bathroom, how about kitchen? I’d be tempted to go for the house share so I could buy quicker, but I never liked sharing a kitchen

Backtolife14 · 27/02/2024 17:00

Thanks everyone. I don't mind sharing the kitchen as much as I'm not a huge cook as such, but definitely not the bathroom again.
I'll sleep on it.

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Reugny · 27/02/2024 17:01

Ensuite room in house share.

House sharing should keep council tax and other bills lower so you can save more quickly and buy quicker.

jeaux90 · 27/02/2024 17:02

Nothing beats your own place. However, location when you are living on your own matters.

BirdsAreDinosInDisguise · 29/02/2024 16:13

Would you consider being a tenant of a live in landlord? More likely to be just the two of you and less of the downsides of a house of multiple occupancy type house share.

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