My friends ex is a bully, they share a child together, she takes care of their child full time.. he then EOW but doesn’t contact child inbetween those times and also has no involvement with school, seeing how they’re progressing etc her ex continuously tries to bully my friend into bending their court order to suit himself.
Now my friend is seeking to make a change to the order due to a change in circumstances, naturally her ex doesn’t agree. My friend has suggested mediation, her ex has refused and said he isn’t interested in discussing it and that it isn’t her (my friends) decision to make. My friend has been amicable and said while it isn’t solely her decision it also is not solely just his and that is where a third party is needed.
anyway I think after years of making my friend feel worthless she still has his little voice in her mind telling her she is.. so I’m trying to show her that his comment about it not being her decision was unreasonable and his refusal to do mediation or even find out what the fuck is going on with their child even more unreasonable.