I have been seeing a guy for around two months now. We have been on dates every week, like going for dinner and staying at each others home. We both have similar jobs, interests and from what I could tell a mutual feeling of attraction on both sides. He has spoken about being exclusive, bought me flowers, took me out on valentines day, is a gentlemen etc.
Recently, I have found that he has been very cold with me. He still meets up with me and talks, but often takes hours, if not days to reply back to my messages. Nothing serious, just general chit-chat but the feeling of hot and cold is making me feel really anxious and quite frankly, upset.
I have mentioned a couple of times, in jest, about his lack of communication, where I got an apology but not a change of behavior. He would laugh it off in person.
Last week, I went away with friends, he didn't respond back for three days, which I thought was odd and quite rude. I had sent him a message about being unwell on my travels.
Do you think I am thinking too much into it?
My friends say I should ignore him back - which I did once, and he got very upset about it!
I'm tired of playing games, I just want someone whos authentic and if their not interested, just let me know!
Should I bring this up in person or just sack him off?