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To think we don’t need that much food

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Moonpiecake · 25/02/2024 11:19

I feel portions in restaurants and takeaways are bigger than most of adults need and also majority of people buy and eat more food than is necessary for our bodies.

If you are over 30, fit, healthy and manage to remain within the healthy body weight for your age and height how much do to eat.

I want to save money on food but also loose a few kilos and look and feel good so looking for advice

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Speckledpasta · 25/02/2024 17:42

Everyone is different.

I do intermittent fasting and try not to snack so I eat a relatively low volume of food now. But then I worry I don't get enough fibre and probably only just manage 4-5 portions of fruit and veg.

babybons · 25/02/2024 17:44

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 25/02/2024 17:16

I'm pretty sure that the poster who said she spent £80 pm on food actually meant £80 per week - yet every other poster has picked up on this !

That said - my FIL used to spend around £7 on his weekly food from Asda . He had plenty of money but being frugal was everything to him and he had no interest in food beyond it being basic fuel .

I'm pretty sure you didn't read the full thread or you would have read, the many people questioning it. You would also have seen that she clarified HER mistake. You just look like a dick now 😂

Still stand by what I said, you can't live well on £10 a week or £7.

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 25/02/2024 17:45

I'm wondering what the agenda is that would be benefitted by advising people to eat more vegetables. Are there some deeply malevolent brassica farmers out there threatening research institutes?

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 25/02/2024 17:47

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 25/02/2024 17:45

I'm wondering what the agenda is that would be benefitted by advising people to eat more vegetables. Are there some deeply malevolent brassica farmers out there threatening research institutes?

I for one am sick of being controlled by Brussels (sprouts). Take back control, say I.

Crushed23 · 25/02/2024 17:47

Catsandcuddles · 25/02/2024 17:35

I can easily finish a standard restaurant meal, I don't consider myself to be greedy, for me a restaurant meal is a rare treat so I'll generally order what I fancy and don't feel guilty about ordering a pudding either. If I was eating out every week though, I'd be more considerate of my choices. I wouldn't judge someone based on what they eat at a restaurant,it might be the only meal they eat all day.

I'm mid 30s, currently a size 10. I fluctuate between a 10 and a 12 but I have to try much harder to maintain a size 10 now that I'm my 30s. If I don't watch what I eat, I'll easily gain weight and go up to a size 12.

I stick to 3 meals a day, and have 3 snacks. Snacks will generally be a peice of fruit or low fat yogurt and I try to have a well balanced main meal, a mix of protein , carbs and veg. Yes you read that correct re. Carbs.

I rarely drink alcohol and I exercise 2 to 3 times per week, normally body combat or some weights at the gym. I can maintain my weight and dress size doing this with a very sedentary job.

I haven’t RTFT but I’m like the above poster. I always finish a restaurant meal. I make sure I go there hungry and I devour my meal which is often 2 courses (starter and main - I don’t do dessert). There’s often sides of veg, and bread, and usually wine. I pig out, basically.

BUT I exercise 6 days a week and eat ‘clean’ 90% of the time, so one unclean meal out of 21 meals a week is not something I’m going to spend time feeling guilty about.

BeachBeerBbq · 25/02/2024 17:52

Milkmani · 25/02/2024 17:23

If you bulked the majority of your meals with dry pulses and tend not to buy anything out of season then it would be doable for 2 adults- this would also be healthy and filling. However the if you want daily fresh salad, lots of berries, more expensive fruits and more expensive cuts of meat then no, not really possible.

Price me a month of food for 80 quid a month for 2 in any one of the shops which is "healthy and filling". Let's pretend I have absolute basics at home like spices, flour and condiments.

The poster came back and said it's week.

Crispedia · 25/02/2024 18:03

We spend on average £80pm on food for two people

Yikes, I spend about £280 a month on food just for me. I also cook everything from scratch.

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 25/02/2024 18:05

@BeachBeerBbq some of us did this costing a few months ago. If you follow a workhouse style diet it is almost possible. Prices are a little bit out of date.
Bread is pretty much the cheapest calorie source in the UK.
A tenner a week is doable but boring and not that healthy.

£20 a week should be doable and healthy, maybe?

To think we don’t need that much food
Wendysfriend · 25/02/2024 18:07

I find restaurants serve tinchy portions and you end up going to McDonald's afterwards, so I just cook myself, that way I get the amount of food I want and I can fill the fill the plate right up. I normally have 3 meals a day and snacks too. Here's a pic of my dinner tonight.

To think we don’t need that much food
Vegetus · 25/02/2024 18:11

Just get one big chicken and you can feed a family of 5 for a fortnight according to this place.

Moonpiecake · 25/02/2024 18:17

Itisnearlyspring · 25/02/2024 15:44

This. By strength training I have also increased the amount of calories I eat to maintain weight by about 400 from 1500 to around 1900. Muscle is metabolically active and will burn calories even at rest.

I also think changing what you eat helps a lot. Not all calories are the same and are metabolised by the gut differently. I eat min 30g fibre and reduced starchy carbs and zero upf.

Need to start weigh lifting

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pippablackwell · 25/02/2024 18:22

Iamuhtredsonofuhtred · 25/02/2024 16:38

I’m 41, I am 5’3” and a size 8; my weight is normally 8st 11-9st.

This is a standard days food for me, I work 12 hour shifts so take it all with me. Breakfast is overnight oats with berries, lunch is a sweet potato, kale and lentil curry and dinner is mixed bean, tuna and tomato salad, with a raw fruit and nut bar, and apple for snacks. I only really drink black coffee, water and Diet Coke. I rarely drink alcohol, rarely eat meat, don’t eat much bread, tend to eat brown rice etc. I do however eat too much sugar, but because my meals are basically healthy it doesn’t seem to affect my weight too much.

I run 5k twice a week and do 30 mins of barre around 4 nights a week. I can eat around 1900kcals a day and maintain my current weight as I am pretty active (job where I’m on my feet all day), but the meals in the photo come to about 1600 cals as I’m going on holiday soon!

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Derailing, but where did you get that lunchbox from?

CommentNow · 25/02/2024 18:32

I'll be slaughtered for this and told it's an eating disorder but as you asked...

I'm size 12. Currently not walking much due to weather and long hours WFH (10km a week) so I've cut back to one meal a day which is dinner. I eat as much as I fancy and its normally something like stir fry, curry, meat and veg style, "massive salad", unlimited soup and 1 thickly sliced bread. Saturday I'll make a 3 course meal. Sunday is a big roast.

I'll regularly have a treat food during the day or after dinner like a flapjack or brownie. But I only eat homemade, so even the flapjack is quality oats and seeds, the brownie is 80% chocolate. I appreciate brown sugar is still sugar.

When summer comes, I'll be out doing 30km a week walking and active weekend days and back to big brunch and dinner at the weekend and the standard B/L/D so I'm not bothered. I just see it as adjusting my intake to reflect my activity levels.

Rosscameasdoody · 25/02/2024 18:35

MyLadyTheKingsMother · 25/02/2024 11:33

500kcals a day for a week is starvation.

That's fucking awful advice.

It’s actually advice my DP got from his GP when he wanted to diet and try to lose weight to reverse his type 2 diabetes. It’s also advice my friend who is wheelchair bound and very overweight received from her consultant - she can’t exercise and can only eat a reduced amount of calories before she gains weight, as her metabolism has changed since she started to rely on the chair. It depends on the circumstances and in some cases it’s valid. Medics will also add the caveat that this kind of diet is extreme and shouldn't be followed for more than a few weeks at a time.

JellaBeans · 25/02/2024 18:36

I agree OP but a lot of people are greedy fuckers and would complain if they received a normal sized portion in a restaurant. Past two days I’ve been out for dinner (unusual, two birthdays to celebrate). First one I got a lasagne with came with chips and a salad. It was HUGE and I hate wasting food so really tried to eat all of it but I was beaten half way in. Just far too much. Make mysen feel sick with the effort too.

Last night - same thing, gigantic portion which I ended up having to leave half of. There’s just no need.

FinallyFeb · 25/02/2024 18:38

I eat out a lot and have found portions have become a bit smaller recently.

The cheaper the restaurant the bigger the potion.

Andthereyougo · 25/02/2024 18:39

Moonpiecake · 25/02/2024 11:26

Not sure exactly what I need so looking for advice.

Do we need 5 pieces of fruit and vegetables? Do we need 3 meals per day or can we do we 2? Snacks? Carbohydrates? Do we need to eat little and often?

If you’re doing a heavy manual job, or running miles every day you need more calories and dividing those into 3 meals a day is probably sensible.
More sedentary job you could have 2 meals or spread that food into 3 if you like socialising at meal times or family meal time is important to you.
I eat lots of fruit and veg as I don’t eat meat or fish and try to limit carbs like bread. But if I was still working 12 hour days like I used to I’d step up the carbs to keep me going.
It’s just a case of knowing a bit about nutritional needs, food values and adjusting to suit yourself.
Can’t comment on size of takeaway meals as I’ve never eaten one. Did order in a pizza once but size options were given so I knew exactly what’d be delivered.

slore · 25/02/2024 18:42

Moonpiecake · 25/02/2024 11:26

Not sure exactly what I need so looking for advice.

Do we need 5 pieces of fruit and vegetables? Do we need 3 meals per day or can we do we 2? Snacks? Carbohydrates? Do we need to eat little and often?

We actually need at least 7 portions of fruit and veg a day. Authorities set it a bit lower because they thought most people couldn't manage.

The amount of food you need to eat varies, depending on your size, muscle mass, and also how good your digestion is.

I'm skinny (and was underweight for a very long time) and need to eat much larger portions than most people my size, because a lot isn't absorbed. I only started to gain weight about three years after quitting gluten. I'm undiagnosed, but coeliac's destroys your villi where many nutrients are absorbed, hence it tends to make you underweight.

InSpainTheRain · 25/02/2024 18:45

I try to stick to;
3 meals a day, 1 snack at most
Cook from scratch every day
Avoid UPFs and sugar
Keep fruit and veg content high
Breakfast and 4/7 lunches are veg based, 3/7 have some fish/meat
5/7 dinner are some meat/fish with veg, the other 2/7 are veg/vegan
I drink black codlffee.once a day, green tea and water

BeachBeerBbq · 25/02/2024 18:51

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 25/02/2024 18:05

@BeachBeerBbq some of us did this costing a few months ago. If you follow a workhouse style diet it is almost possible. Prices are a little bit out of date.
Bread is pretty much the cheapest calorie source in the UK.
A tenner a week is doable but boring and not that healthy.

£20 a week should be doable and healthy, maybe?

That's why I asked the poster for costing on "healthy and filling". While what you posted is filling I would not call it healthy really if all week is similar.

broccolienthusiast · 25/02/2024 18:53

Some of us do! I eat between 2300-2500 kcal so the bigger the portion, the happier I am :)

Higgeldypiggeldy35 · 25/02/2024 19:01

Im 40 and have been intermittant fasting for18 months and have lost 2 stone. I eat 2 meals a day, lunch and a light dinner. I focus on whole foods and I eat to satiety and am rarely hungry these days.

Milkmani · 25/02/2024 19:06

BeachBeerBbq · 25/02/2024 17:52

Price me a month of food for 80 quid a month for 2 in any one of the shops which is "healthy and filling". Let's pretend I have absolute basics at home like spices, flour and condiments.

The poster came back and said it's week.

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Yep sure let me write it all down so you can spot check me, oh internet god 😂

NotARealWookiie · 25/02/2024 19:10

Gwenhwyfar · 25/02/2024 16:11

No, it's not true that people need 3 meals a day!

I said most. Not all. Most.

Generally known and breakfast, lunch and dinner.

You don’t have to eat them but it’s not uncommon too. Hence use of the word “most”.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 25/02/2024 19:12

Moonpiecake · 25/02/2024 11:19

I feel portions in restaurants and takeaways are bigger than most of adults need and also majority of people buy and eat more food than is necessary for our bodies.

If you are over 30, fit, healthy and manage to remain within the healthy body weight for your age and height how much do to eat.

I want to save money on food but also loose a few kilos and look and feel good so looking for advice

YOU can feel what you want. You're not forced to buy in restaurats and takeaways. Don't come on here with your passive undereating comments.

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