My in laws are staying with us (in the newly renovated, purpose built granny flat) for 4 months from abroad. As part of their stay, we had arranged for them to borrow my friend's extra car. Back story is that it is a cheap but decent runabout that they bought for an au pair who left early and is currently not being used at all. Great, a free car for them, I thought. So we paid for some extra insurance and roadside cover, and they've been using it for the last 6 weeks or so.
My god the moaning about the car. My fil ia constantly either worrying about it "making it" anywhere, or saying that it lacks power, that the radio doesn't pick up his phones Bluetooth (it doesn't have that function).
Not once have he or my MIL thanked us for arranging it. We've saved them loads of money as they'd have had to rent one to get around (we can't all fit in our car as we have a bunch of kids). I drove it once because I was going somewhere on my own and the family needed the car, and it was totally fine.
Aibu to expect them to stop moaning about it to us?? I feel like saying "ok then, I'll get them to pick it up this afternoon."