Dh suggested a trip to Brighton this weekend. As of last night (Friday) , it was still an idea. Not sure what day, although it was mentioned that if we did it Sunday then I could go as well as I actually had a day off. (13 days straight.. not sure of they realise it's that much but they all certainly know I havent had a day off this half term!) No more was said about it. Didnt hear from the family all day, but thats not unusual as i work retail so taking calls is hard.
So, worked late tonight, didnt realise the time as firefighting issues at the store.
Got a text at 8pm.. just got home and you aren't here?
I called from the car as I was on my way home at that point, and Dh snarky comments about how its considerate to call and let people know I am going to be late so they dont worry. Fair point. I apologise and said I didnt see the time, explained what had happened at work. He asked if I had called ds2 to let him know, I said no, I assumed you were at home and as I said, I didnt realise the time. Dh then mentions they (him and dd) went to Brighton today! I was like, what, without ds2? And I thought we were going tomorrow when I could go? And what about ds21? Dh says well ds1 wanted to go but had work and anyway the weather is going to be crap tomorrow so we went today!
So he makes a snarky comment about me not communicating, when I didnt even know they were going on a day trip, let alone that neither ds went too! The weather is going to be about a degree different!
So AIBU to be annoyed that they went today, when they could have gone tomorrow with both me and ds1 who also has a day off tomorrow? Its literally my only day off during half term to do something nice with everyone but now dd just wants to "chill" before back to school.