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What annoys you?

199 replies

YesIknowIcare · 23/02/2024 18:59

What annoys you in everyday life.

Selfish drivers parking their car halfway up the sidewalk - forcing prams/wheelchairs out to road.
Tomatoes.
Smokers.

OP posts:
Echolight · 14/08/2024 23:51

Some women's screechy voices.

lollitakortez · 14/08/2024 23:56

Elon Musk

Lovelycupofcoffee · 18/08/2024 06:51

Neighbours putting rubbish in your bin because theirs is full up 😡

Positivenancy · 18/08/2024 07:30

Katemax82 · 23/02/2024 19:06

A lot of things...
People who pronounce the letter H as "hayche"

@Katemax82 but a lot of people from other countries pronounce it that way…that’s like saying I hate people with Liverpool accents etc?!

TigerRag · 18/08/2024 09:44

When someone you vaguely met once comes up to you and says hello. Asked who it was and they seemed shocked that I asked? My running bib with the words "visually impaired" should be a bit of a given away.

Wendysfriend · 18/08/2024 12:52

The poxy lids attached to bottles and cartons. Spent the whole morning mopping fucking strawberry milk out of the fridge !!! Of course it was on the stupid top shelf so ran down the length of the fridge soaking everything !!

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 20/08/2024 07:27

People that find it cute to let kids pay for the car park when there is an enormous queue

Omeleto2024 · 20/08/2024 07:35

People who have lived very sheltered or lucky lives who refuse to accept that other people can be extremely dangerous and irrational and pretend we should all hold hands and sing Kumbaya and everything will be fine.

People who tell others to just have a little chat with their loud, shitty anti social neighbours. Never. Ever. Do this. See above.

Omeleto2024 · 20/08/2024 07:36

Positivenancy · 18/08/2024 07:30

@Katemax82 but a lot of people from other countries pronounce it that way…that’s like saying I hate people with Liverpool accents etc?!

A lot of people in the UK too, depending on where you're from.

On that, suppose one of my pet hates is provincials who think they have the right to tell other people how to pronounce words or letters, not realising that what is normal for them is just regional and not, in fact, universal.

menopausalmare · 20/08/2024 07:39

People who drop litter and selfishness, generally.

Omeleto2024 · 20/08/2024 07:40

RockItLikeRocketFuel · 14/08/2024 08:34

Escalators are for standing still on.

Tell that to all those people using the Tube. In any case you get to the other end quicker if you don't.

Escalators are indeed for standing still on.

Though I always stand to the side so that people who wish to rush up them can do so.

Katemax82 · 20/08/2024 07:59

Somepeoplearesnippy · 23/02/2024 23:45

I would have agreed with you once but then I married a man from Belfast who says " hayche' and he told me why

Back in the day the biggest and best paid employers in Belfast were the shipyards. Officially jobs there were open to anyone but IRL they only employed Protestants, Catholics were not welcome. This was all under the table so they didn't ask you upfront what your religion was when you applied. They'd normally ascertain it from your address (Falls Rd area =Catholic, Shankhill Rd area =,Protestant) or your name (John Paul Murphy = Catholic , William Smith = Protestant).

if these two tests didn't work they'd ask an applicant to spell something. Hayce/Haitch = Catholic. Aitch = Protestant. Say it the 'wrong' way and you were not going to get a job.

For those of us who live in non-sectarian areas this seems unbelievable but for many people it was their world and it went on for many decades. For Catholics from an Ulster background pronouncing their H's in this way is a non aggressive way of showing their cultural identity. Their being free to do it without fear of persecution shows how far we have moved on. I completely respect my husband's choice to teach our Brit born children to do this.

Edited

Omg this explains why my daughters Catholic northern Irish teacher says haitch

Katemax82 · 20/08/2024 08:19

Positivenancy · 18/08/2024 07:30

@Katemax82 but a lot of people from other countries pronounce it that way…that’s like saying I hate people with Liverpool accents etc?!

There's no excuse for people who are not culturally inclined to say it (like my sister)

Katemax82 · 20/08/2024 08:22

Ok my pet hate, being the only one on this thread being bollocked for my pet hate!!

ZenNudist · 20/08/2024 08:23

When I'm loading my shopping onto the conveyor I start from the end near the till. Then some inconsiderate person comes along and starts putting theirs on when I have a massive trolley load. I usually say excuse me but I'm going to need that space. Sometimes the cashier starts moving the belt and they keep moving their shopping back. Arrrgh! Just why?!?

oakleaffy · 20/08/2024 08:39

Stevesellsshells · 23/02/2024 20:50

When your sleeve gets caught on the door handle.

Yes!
As a teenager I was once asked to clear the table.
Had a stack of 5 plates and my sleeve got caught on a cupboard door handle causing the topmost plates to crash to the floor and smash.

NOISE.

So much noise irritates me.
Wind chimes, screaming kids, barking dogs.

People who say “End of” ( End of what?)
Or “Needs gone”

Now the abbreviation “ Cos” is used that reminds me of how a toddler talks

It’s not that hard to type “ Because “, surely?

” Could of” also is irritating.

Soccergearmissingagain · 20/08/2024 12:02

Katemax82 · 20/08/2024 07:59

Omg this explains why my daughters Catholic northern Irish teacher says haitch

Haitch is the standard, correct form in ROI too and the pronunciation taught in schools, so the vast majority of Irish people will say it like that.

KimberleyClark · 20/08/2024 12:11

Groups of people walking abreast, taking up the whole width of the pavement and forcing anyone coming the other way into the road.

People who recline their seats on planes.

Couples who book a window and aisle seat in the same row obviously hoping the middle seat will not be booked. . Why not book them in adjacent rows, thereby not preventing people who do want to sit together from doing so?

Pussycat22 · 26/08/2024 21:26

Everything.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 26/08/2024 21:41

Just come back from holiday - people wearing bikinis/swimwear in the buffet .
It was casual , fine to wear shorts/vest there
But wear a slip over dress on your swimsuit . Not one of those daft little lace wraps that looks like a curtain.

Out by the pool , the poolside bar or resturant - fine .
In the buffet resturant I do not want to see stomachs and thighs thanks ( and all the rest that isn't covered up)

Jifmicroliquid · 26/08/2024 22:08

Those ridiculously black, curled, obviously fake eyelashes that are so unbelievably thick and dark that no-one could ever think they are natural.
I think they make girls/ladies look grubby when wearing them.
You can get really good natural looking long lashes done. I have no idea why this fake look is so popular. When I see them, I feel weirdly annoyed at how odd humans are.

ssd · 27/08/2024 09:12

I work in retail and strangely enough i can take most customers, even the batshit crazy ones....but a hankie in the wash makes me feel murderous

SinnerBoy · 27/08/2024 09:31

Jifmicroliquid · Yesterday 22:08

Those ridiculously black, curled, obviously fake eyelashes that are so unbelievably thick and dark that no-one could ever think they are natural.

I think they look odd, like half a tarantula on each eyelid...

dolskarella · 27/08/2024 09:35

Anthropomorphism

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