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They went through my skip!

365 replies

IncognitoUsername · 22/02/2024 10:45

Is this a thing? We have a skip outside as we have been doing some decorating/clearing out. I heard a van outside the house which seemed to have stopped so I looked out and two blokes were rummaging in the skip! I went downstairs to ask what they were doing but they had just left. I noticed some metal items had gone out of the skip.
Is this normal? Do people just drive round looking for skips to have a nose in? I’m not bothered by them taking stuff out but surely it would have been polite to ask?!

OP posts:
DIYnovices · 22/02/2024 12:54

I wouldn’t have a problem with it- anyone in need enough to be diving through a skip is welcome to my rubbish! They would probably be disappointed though.. if I have anything I think someone might want I put it on our local ‘whisking’ facebook group to see if someone wants it for free. I get prompt free pick up and they get their item for free. Everyone wins.

housethatbuiltme · 22/02/2024 12:56

Iwrotethelyricstoaxlf · 22/02/2024 12:52

If they ask I don’t have a problem.

but I won’t let them take the metal as that is also how the skip man makes his money.

I get very grumpy when I’ve stacked a skip carefully so as to fit as much in as possible and some nugget comes and images and I have to restack it all over again.

The skip man makes his money by charging me a fortune... do you get your skips free?

DoubleTime · 22/02/2024 12:56

I put a broken dishwasher on the street for collection (as arranged and paid for with local authority). It had gone in 10-15 mins. Unfortunately it was too short notice for me to get a refund for the uplift.

MasterShardlake · 22/02/2024 12:56

I was grateful when someone took a huge metal electric awning from outside my house. It was there for a week then one morning it had gone!
I thought I was stuck with it for life, I'd contacted scrap metal dealers and they weren't interested, council wouldn't take it as a paid for 'special collection" because it had a motor.

Isnsneii · 22/02/2024 12:57

My skip has been used by most of the street for their rubbish despite me putting a note on the skip in capital letters not to use it

I don’t think I would ever hire one again tbh

ive had people take stuff out of mine too, which is fair enough but using it for their own rubbish absolutely not.

frankie001 · 22/02/2024 12:59

I’ve been gifted a whole Hornsey crockery set from a friend who skip dives. I love it!

stayathomer · 22/02/2024 13:00

If your gates are closed I think it’s actually horrendous, if open then personally I think they should ask but like someone said more room in the skip!!!

IncognitoUsername · 22/02/2024 13:00

Isnsneii · 22/02/2024 12:57

My skip has been used by most of the street for their rubbish despite me putting a note on the skip in capital letters not to use it

I don’t think I would ever hire one again tbh

ive had people take stuff out of mine too, which is fair enough but using it for their own rubbish absolutely not.

I think ours is far enough down our drive for people to not put stuff in.
Am not being precious at all, just didn’t know it was a thing and thought people should really ask before coming on to the drive and just taking stuff.

OP posts:
BakedBeeeeans · 22/02/2024 13:00

Totally normal. We just leave stuff out for the rag n bone man too

kkloo · 22/02/2024 13:01

Yep very normal.
I always have everything ready to go whenever I need a skip.

If not then you're going to be dealing with people rooting through it or loading it up with their own rubbish.

TheFormidableMrsC · 22/02/2024 13:02

Dotjones · 22/02/2024 10:51

YANBU, it's theft. Even if you are going to throw something out it's still theft because they've taken something with the intention of permanently take it away from the rightful owner. Everything has a rightful owner, and until your skip is collected the contents belong to you. Call the police, it's not an emergency obviously so don't call 999. Chances are they are opportunistic thieves and this is not the first and last time they've done this so logging the theft helps the police build a picture of what's going on in the area.

Honestly get a grip. Call the police because somebody's taken your rubbish? 🙄

Snoozymoozy · 22/02/2024 13:03

Dotjones · 22/02/2024 10:51

YANBU, it's theft. Even if you are going to throw something out it's still theft because they've taken something with the intention of permanently take it away from the rightful owner. Everything has a rightful owner, and until your skip is collected the contents belong to you. Call the police, it's not an emergency obviously so don't call 999. Chances are they are opportunistic thieves and this is not the first and last time they've done this so logging the theft helps the police build a picture of what's going on in the area.

You have to be joking? You would actually call the police for this? 😂😂😂

Iwasafool · 22/02/2024 13:04

K0OLA1D · 22/02/2024 10:46

It's normal here. I'm grateful. Can fit more in the skip

That's what I always think. It's a win win isn't it.

milveycrohn · 22/02/2024 13:05

Worse is other people filling up your skip with all their rubbish, leaving no room for your own.
Or even just dumping their old furniture on your drive, hoping you will put the stuff in your skip.
All this happened to my son recently, when he had some building work done.
However, with regard to the OP's post, someone asked if they could have something from his skip. He was quite happy to do so.
However, he had to stay elsewhere while the work was being done, so would not always have been around if people kept knocking on the door.

Iwasafool · 22/02/2024 13:06

kkloo · 22/02/2024 13:01

Yep very normal.
I always have everything ready to go whenever I need a skip.

If not then you're going to be dealing with people rooting through it or loading it up with their own rubbish.

Putting their own stuff in your skip is much more annoying as far as I'm concerned. Skips aren't cheap and if it means you need another one that is a real problem.

Hocuspocusnonsense · 22/02/2024 13:06

Yep. Normal.

If people removing stuff irritates you just wait until you get up in the morning, look out of your window and see people have put stuff IN your skip! Yep that happens too.

Daffodilsandbagels · 22/02/2024 13:08

Dotjones · 22/02/2024 10:51

YANBU, it's theft. Even if you are going to throw something out it's still theft because they've taken something with the intention of permanently take it away from the rightful owner. Everything has a rightful owner, and until your skip is collected the contents belong to you. Call the police, it's not an emergency obviously so don't call 999. Chances are they are opportunistic thieves and this is not the first and last time they've done this so logging the theft helps the police build a picture of what's going on in the area.

What an absolutely ridiculous attitude. OP, pull yourself together - you have thrown this stuff out! It’s good that it might get reused rather than going to landfill and they are making more room in the skip for you, meaning you can throw more stuff out that you would otherwise have been able to.

connie26 · 22/02/2024 13:08

Yes, it's always been a thing but it's polite to ask first.

InnocentAndDeranged · 22/02/2024 13:09

Catza · 22/02/2024 10:59

In my student days we furnished our entire house of of people's skips. You threw it away, why would anyone need to ask? Did you put it in a skip to use later? Would you have said no if someone did ask?
Now, adults, we frequently had skips when moving or redecorating. I honestly would have been annoyed if someone knocked on my door and asked me permission to go through my skip. What a massive waste of time. It's basically a bin of things I no longer need. So just go for it.

Someone said no to my DH once when he asked to take a door or planks of wood or whatever it was. Fuck knows why, she was chucking it out.

kkloo · 22/02/2024 13:09

Iwasafool · 22/02/2024 13:06

Putting their own stuff in your skip is much more annoying as far as I'm concerned. Skips aren't cheap and if it means you need another one that is a real problem.

Yeah I actually didn't think that people rooting through it leaves you more room for your own stuff so that was a good point made by PP's.

But I just always have everything ready to go.

MabelMaybe · 22/02/2024 13:10

@OhmygodDont our council used to do a version of that too. It got stopped because councils had to separate out items for recycling and not send all of it to landfill, so they couldn't just chuck wood, metal, foam sofas etc. in together.

PansyOatZebra · 22/02/2024 13:12

It’s polite to ask but it’s increasingly common that people don’t ask anymore.

BibbleandSqwauk · 22/02/2024 13:18

I think if it's on the property you absolutely should ask. My builders put some items in the skip when I was at work that I had specifically told them not too. It was only luck that I got home in time to rescue the items before someone decided to help themselves. If a skip diver asks, at least there's an extra "layer" to be sure it's not wanted.

DillDanding · 22/02/2024 13:22

I was emptying out my parents’ house and had a massive skip in their front garden.

A couple of guys turned up and took loads of the metal. It was handy as it freed up a load of space.

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