To take DD out of nursery..

[ByBreezyZebra]

My DD goes to nursery 1 day a week, no issue with it, they have been nothing but lovely and I trust them with her.
I've decided to stay at home until she's older, meaning there's no need for childcare as I won't be at work.
AIBU to take her out? It's £55 a day, and it's half an hour from where we live so I would literally be paying for it and sending her for nothing. I feel guilty taking her out as they're so nice, but it seems pointless.

I would keep it. How old is she? My two are in 4 days a week (not ideal) but even if I didn’t work, I’d gun for two days. Nursery is good in lots of ways.

Maybe keep one or two sessions, you’ll need a break!

How old is she?

If under 2 years old then I'd say being at home but going out to playgroups, activities with you is a good choice.

If over 2 and enjoying the social aspect of nursery then she would likely benefit from carrying on.

Depending on her age and whether you may be needing to use it later. Agree if over 2 keep her or find a playgroup just 9 to 12 for example.

It depends how old she is but it's better to do a few sessions a week if at all.

Well she definitely doesn’t need to go full time. Keep her in for two mornings.

Is she settled and enjoying it ? If she’s happy I’d co as you will need a days break if you’re a sahm it will give you a good balance

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Of course not. None of my children went to nursery at all, they did morning sessions at a preschool from age 2.5/3ish. Do what works for you and your family.

I would say under 2 take her out. Over 2 it’s a nice social time for her and to do activities you maybe don’t do at home. It also gives you a day to get things done that aren’t practical with a baby (hairdresser, doctor’s appointment, etc)

Find nearer nursery and use the day ro get stuff done?

If you took her out what would you do with her?

If you live in an area with many playgroups that could be a good option.

Or find a more local term time pre school and send her for two mornings? Cheaper and not driving so far.

Depends on her age. If she’s 2+ I’d look for a local pre school instead where she should do a couple of half days. Good for her independence, learning etc and getting used to being away from you. And ps if you’re stopping work I hope you are married with full access to shared finances and your spouse is paying into a pension for you.

I’d keep her in, gives you a weekly break to look forward to and it socialises her as well, gets her used to the routine of being somewhere without mum. This will help come school time.

You could leave her in for a morning or two and use the few hours to go to an exercise class or take a walk nearby? Or sit and chill with a coffee, get the grocery shop done… a few hours flies by