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AIBU to feel hurt about being cut out of group photo?

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carlottavaldes · 19/02/2024 17:41

I recently went to a friend's hen-do and as part of it we did a dance class. There were about 10 of us. At the end of the class the hen asked the teacher to take some photos of us. Lots of great photos were taken and sent round to the group afterwards, but the one the hen chose to share online showed us all standing in a line - except it didn't show me, because she'd cut me out of it. Literally everyone else was in it but I had been cut (I know this because I saw the original photo, with me in it). All I can think is that I was ruining the symmetry or something because I was standing at one end. I feel confused and embarrassed about it - everyone who went to the hen do can also see that I was cut out. I haven't had a falling out with the hen, as far as I know, so it can only be that she thought the photo looked better without me. It's making me paranoid about how I look, and also making me think she's a lot more superficial than I realised.

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user1471517900 · 20/02/2024 16:02

Is that the lesson? You can say you saw it on social media recently and wondered if she has the original photo as you have been cut off the end of it.

What's more likely - your friend who wanted you at her hen do and wedding actually secretly dislikes you and shows this by cutting you off the end of a picture..... or that it's been cropped accidentally/ to zoom in on her a bit more if she's showing it on her social media page.

Creatureofhabit87 · 20/02/2024 16:08

I have read this post before!

TheChosenTwo · 20/02/2024 16:16

Bloody hell, it was months ago?! Yes I think you need to move on now!

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