Background: In the summer holidays DD lost her friend group. Long story short, she didn't toe the line , so she got called names, was left out, got threats and even the girls not directly involved were pressured to drop contact with her, which they did. We're on the other side of this, DD has settled well at secondary, has a new group of nice friends and all these girls are blocked. There's a lot more to it, but basically she's doing well, and out of the drama, at least on her part.
One of the ringleaders keeps asking DD(through others ) to unblock her. I've heard she might be having a hard time, and not getting on very well with the girls , but I don't trust this kid as far as I could throw her. Some of the girls have done this before, apologising, pretending to be nice for a day or two and then exploding all over DD once again.
DD asked what to do , as she veers between being worried something starting at school (I've alleviated these fears) or feeling sorry for her in case she is lonely/miserable (I told her it's not her problem). Basically, I told her not to unblock her and ignore, she's out of the drama and she needs to stay out. They're all at the same secondary and only y7, so it could be years of this.
Internally, I'll be honest, I don't give a shit what the situation really is , even if she is genuinely reaching out , DD is not some kind of emotional support animal and she (all of them really)did this to herself.
It also annoys the shit out of me that it's been months now and they still pop up like an unwanted rash .