The Dr who took me seriously when I brought my child to A&E with a 5 day long fever and periods of vacant staring. She listened to me and took my instincts seriously enough to go against her own initial judgement of ‘child is running around playing and can’t be seriously ill’ and ordered tests to ‘rule out anything serious’.
I’m very grateful to her. Because my child had a CRP of 217. Initially treated for sepsis, then diagnosed with Kawasaki’s (which has only a 10 day treatment window - by the time we got an accurate diagnosis and treatment we were on day 9).
I am grateful to this Dr because she could easily have done what the GP, 111 service, out of hours doctor and the other hospital I had visited in the previous 3 days had done and fobbed me off with ‘it’s probably just a virus’ and an eye roll ðŸ«
I am similarly grateful to the anaesthetist who diagnosed my heart condition during labour and referred me for surgery. I am not grateful to the countless GP’s, nurses and midwives who spent 20 years telling me that my palpitations and blood pressure issues were probably just anxiety or white coat syndrome.
I am grateful for the rheumatologist who, exhausting all other tests, ran a test or coeliacs on my daughter, just on the off chance that this was causing her joint pain, headaches, dizziness, constipation and lack of energy. I’m glad someone finally took her symptoms seriously, instead of telling us it was growing pains as our GP did for 2 entire years! I’m grateful to the fantastic dietician we saw after diagnosis who gave us the best, clearest, most caring info and advice I have ever received from a clinician in my life.
I am not grateful for GPs . GPs and their ridiculous biased, unevidence based, watch and wait approach to women and children’s health can just get to fuck. They know nothing and they just hold people back from accessing the care they need.